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Cant think of a title for this one lol...please help!!

Heya


Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now. Im in love and everythings going great. Although i aint good at how i interpret words...

The problem is my boyfriends nails dig into my vagina when he masterbates me, and it hurts and its not intensional. Last time i actually bleed How can i tell him that it hurts when he does that?

I dont know how to tell him, bkoz i dont want him feeling as if hes hurt me in any sort of way. Hes so sweet and if anything, i believe his reaction would be that he feels really sorry for me when all i want is an "OK lets try something different."

If anyone can help me, please write back

Thank You

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Is he a warewolf?

just tell him 'that hurts cut your nail' simples [kiss teeth]

Speak up

Hi,

I totally agree with candy and suze here. Its really important to talk with him coz this can be really bad later for you physically. i mean this time you bleed but this can also cause infections. There is nothing wrong in telling him about this. If he also loves you he will surely understand. And im sure this is going to be gr88. Just explain him the problem and everything will work out just fine.

Speak up

Hi,

At the beginning of a relationship it's all about being polite isn ... What I would recommend is SPEAK UP, men aren't the brightest sparks when it comes to realising the obvious so what I would suggest is cutting his nails!
During some time (not in bed) chat away as you would and then look at your own nails and go "oh I need to get these cut" then look at his and say "right YOURS definitely need a trim!" make it a joke but get him to cut them or you will start being put off sex all together as your brain will make an association eg. sex = considerable pain. It isn't just not fair on you, it isn't fair on him. If you were hurting him unintentionally you would want him to tell you, you expect him too so it is only fair he expects the same back. Give the lad a break and make him trim them! ASAP! x x

Masturbation issue

Would it help if you asked him to cut his nails, you could then avoid being scratched.

I'm sure he would understand if you explained to him that he is causing you discomfort.

Reply to masturbation issue

hope this helps what i tend to do , iv learned from my mistakes is use alot of lube if i masturbate my gf so the skin isnt as tough and more relaxed helps it to slide also tell him to cut his nails just randomly like '' ur nails are dirty baby'' lol i once used a latex glove that was fun just experiment



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