1st/2nd/3rd/4th time help!

Right so the first time i had sex with my boyfriend , i bleed a lot and it hurt really bad and i bled all the next day , i knew you did but i didn't expect it to be that much tbh , then the next day we tried again and the same thing happened except it wasn't as bad , then on the 3rd time nothing happened and it was fine so we was like great but then we did it again and i bled again and it's kinda got me worried 'cause it didn't happen the time before then it did this time . Help pleaseeeeeeeeeee x

Don't worry

I didn't bleed the first time but did a few times after. Just make sure he's gentle and eventually it won't happen