Threesomes

my boyfriend told me a while age that he would like a threesome, and i shot the idea down, the he brought it up agian last night and i want him to be happy but i know hes not he mentions that im not tight enough and that i need to do some exercise. and that im not as skinny as he likes and i really love him and im trying my best but the 3some is getting to me i want him to be happy with me and not want anyother women, but he watches porn like no other i dont know what to do.

Not a chance

give him the elbow he,s running you down and trying to control you

"threesomes"

I think if you are not comfortable doing this then you shouldn't . and don't let him putting down the tightness of you vagina as an excuse to get what he wants, if he has issues with the tightness that can be easily helped do kegel exercises do them even when you are having sex, don't give in to him access whether it is worth being in this relationship what if you do give in to the threesome and he ends up taking off with this girl and what if the girl is a sexual partner that he has already had these are some questions yuo need to ask yourself.

Hes trying to control u!

hes trying to control u! tell him where to go!

Not that bad!

I had the same experience than you. But we talked a lot about it before going for the threesome. He made me realized that there was no threaten about the other person, he will only have sex with her but he didnt have any feelings or attachments for her. I did have an awesome time, and it made me find out other things that I like.

Now, I would recommend you to do it only if you are 100% sure, and you have a good communication between the two of you. Talk to him and make him understand that you want to please him, but also you want to be sure about it. My husband had to wait since the first time that we spoke about it until it really happened for 6 months. But that make it a really nice experience.

Threesomes - nosomes

hes not worth it!!...If he doesnt love u for who you are..then hes definately not worth it..theres plenty of other fish in the sea sister!!

Get rid!!!!

Sorry to say but get rid of him. Sounds like a typical man with no understanding or care for your emotions. He's trying to make you feel bad about wanting to have a threesome but this is something you have the perfect right to refuse, if he loves you he'll understand and respect your feelings

Ok try this

i think he's a manipulative nasty evil bloke..threesomes, not tight enough, bast89d! so say ok , treesomes,YES! get a big cucumber, say to him you want a threesome with a BIG man , a man who has a BIG one who can fill you up..so can he find someone for you?..oh and the cucumber..can he try to stretch himself (in his bottom)cos you want to see him and the BIg fella go at it a bit... to turn you on before he waches you and the BIG guy have sex...It might make him realise how rediculous he is being ..if he is so sex obsessed that he turns that against you..walk away before he has you doing it with animals!

Chelles right!!

ok so he told you he would like a threesome-you said no-end of story!!!! ok if you are comfortable with him telling you about this fantasy when he wants a buzz from the idea..but he needs to understand this is fantasy. darls you cant "make " anyone happy-that has to come from within each person....but-hang on im going to jump up and down a bit-how dare he critisise you or your genitals or your skinniness or lack of!!! i mean how would he feel if all of us women stood about-hands on hips, pointing and discussing all his bits???? really-apart from anything else putting you down like that is just bloody bad manners!!! ok ive had my yell-i just hate to think of anyone being put down like that...the porn issue is very much what is ok for some is not for others-its all about what you are ok with and how much time he spends watching and also of course that he really understands that what he sees there is not by any stretch of the imagination realistic!!!! some people dont seem to get that!!!! i hope things work out for you-just remember a relationship is supposed to feel good!!!!! xx

Noooooooooo

im sorry if you think im speaking out of term, but your bf sounds to be putting you down far too much. i think you should make yourself happy, not him. most guys would probably love a threesome, in fantasy. but id kill my hubby if he suggested it. to me there is a problem in the relationship if he is fantasising about sex with other woman. dont change for anyone sweetheart. if you have made it clear you are not happy with the idea, he should respect that, and leave it at that. but personally i dont think he has any respect what so ever. sorry if this sounds harsh. over the next few days, take a step back, and see how many put downs he gives you. then re asses your relationship honey. best of luck

A big no

I think all of them are right with their advice.NO is no my sweetheart. Save some dignity. He needs to give you respect on that. Goodluck.

A big no

Just a thought, if he brings the subject up again don't immediately say "no" tell him it might be an interesting experience as you've never tried sex with 2 men before