For more frequent sex
How is his lifestyle. A bad diet and poor lifestyle could be killing his potency. I he eating lots of fresh veggies. Doe he exercise regularly (besides sex). Does he take any vitamins. Is he taking and drugs (prescribed or other)?
A five day recover is not normal for a healthy male. 5 hours yes 5 days no way.
I am in my mid 40's I would like sex twice a day, but I don't think I could recover enough, but once a day is usually not a problem, I just can't get the missus to always go for it.
Is he not interested or is he interested but having perfomance challenges?
If he is interested but not "up to it" ask him if he would be willing to accomodate you with his fingers and/or tongue. Or even just hold or carress you will you get off.
Tell him that he get's you all hot and bothered and you need more frequent release and ask for his help.
Personally speaking, I love to help my lady anytime she wants it. It doesn't matter if my equiptment isn't ready for whatever reason. I am and will gladly help her anyway I can.
Sometimes when I am too soft, she likes to suck on my p*ni$ while I use my fingers inside her and she uses a vibe. I love watching her go off like this and enjoy helping her. I don't feel the least bit less manly. Infact the lack of performance pressure lets me relax and enjoy the show.
Frequently the excitement of watching her climax and the stimulation she gives me will often bring my equiptment to life and I end up joining in after her orgasm and have one of my own.
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