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Not getting enough sex?

I know it sounds silly, but its like we have to have sex in like 5 day intervals? And its like we are both young and hot we should be all over each other all the time, right? He is such a nice guy we have been together for 3 years i know he isn't cheating on me, he is too soft to do anything like that! I don't know, i just feel like this is abnormal ???

Thanks guys X

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How is his lifestyle. A bad diet and poor lifestyle could be killing his potency. I he eating lots of fresh veggies. Doe he exercise regularly (besides sex). Does he take any vitamins. Is he taking and drugs (prescribed or other)?

A five day recover is not normal for a healthy male. 5 hours yes 5 days no way.

I am in my mid 40's I would like sex twice a day, but I don't think I could recover enough, but once a day is usually not a problem, I just can't get the missus to always go for it.

Is he not interested or is he interested but having perfomance challenges?

If he is interested but not "up to it" ask him if he would be willing to accomodate you with his fingers and/or tongue. Or even just hold or carress you will you get off.

Tell him that he get's you all hot and bothered and you need more frequent release and ask for his help.

Personally speaking, I love to help my lady anytime she wants it. It doesn't matter if my equiptment isn't ready for whatever reason. I am and will gladly help her anyway I can.

Sometimes when I am too soft, she likes to suck on my p*ni$ while I use my fingers inside her and she uses a vibe. I love watching her go off like this and enjoy helping her. I don't feel the least bit less manly. Infact the lack of performance pressure lets me relax and enjoy the show.

Frequently the excitement of watching her climax and the stimulation she gives me will often bring my equiptment to life and I end up joining in after her orgasm and have one of my own.

Its nomal

Hi some people just dont have that much sex but if you do want more you could ask him for more,it my be that after 3 years together he just does'nt need sex all the time ant more because he has your love,everyone is not the same some have it 5 time's a day some 5 time's a year it's up to you both what you want & if you want it all the time try a little porn to help.



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