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First time

I'm really worried about my first time. My new bf has had sex before. I really dont know what to expect.

I have heard story's about girls who bleed after sex.

I really need some help!!
It embarasses me that i know so little .

would really appreciate some help

xx

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First time

It didn't hurt me and I didn't beed, I put that down to me feeling I was ready and I was not pressured into it. Does your boyf know your a virgin? I hope he really cares for you, it will make it more special and less of a regret. Think very carefully its what you want. None of us know what to expect the first time, its certainly not like you see in a film! sex takes practice! Hope you make the right choice.

Try this

hi dear. from your pic you seem to be young still. anywayz this is a very important decision to make. First of all think do you want to lose your virginity with this guy and are you really ready for it mentally ? if your crystal clear with this than you should follow the tips that layercake gave. they surely are enough to make your first time pleasurable than painful. Just one more tip, start with some foreplay as this would make you a little aroused and get you in mood to enjoy your first time. Hope you make the perfect decision.

All the best.

The way to go

Hey,
Some tips:
- If you're worried about bleeding: put a big soft towel on the bed so you won't have to worry about "spillage"
- Buy some lube, preferably from a pharmacy, and make sure it's water-based. With lube, you'll be about a hundred times more comfortable than without, so don't be cheap when it comes to this.
- Make sure you have more than one condom ready just in case.
- Start with you on top (cowgirl I believe it's called), so you have control over how far he goes in.
Just take it slow and not too seriously. With these tips above, you should avoid any major problems.
Good luck!

Dnt worry

how old r u firstly? dt rush into it huni! its not worth rushing into it firstly!

i does hurta little, but ididnt bleed, not evey one bleeds, use loadsof lubricantif it hurts and take it very slow!

Hi

gota ask, how old are you??? It is true that some girls may bleed after the first time but its not alot of blood so dont worry.
how long have you been with your new bf for...you have to make sure that your ready as its your first time....dont rush things as you only loose your virginity once. xxx



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