Am i too old?

Im 15 and still a virgin...i know the legal age is 16...but it seems like nearly everyone lost there virginity under the age of 16. I have never had oral sex either...i feel pathetic and ashamed of myself.
I have recently met a guy over the internet who is 18...i like him but not alot, he wants sex, and i would have it with him even though im not ready. Is this still safe?

Thanx

Am i too old?

No way are u too old it is a fact that most women lose their virginity at 17
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Too young!!!!!!

I know this is an old post so hope i'm not too late!! The unfortunate thing about virginity is that u do not know how special it is until its gone. Once u have sex u cannot get it back. Sounds obvious i know but i'm just trying to explain how i felt when i was your age. I couldn't wait to 'get rid' of the embarrassing title of virgin even though now looking back i really wish more than anything that i had waited. I was waaaaaaaaay to young to have sex and didn't understand the magnitude of what i was doing. I was 13 years old. I used to hang around with my older sister's friends all the time and at first it was fun and exciting to get attention from them. I was too young and immature/naiive to realise what was actually going on and why they were really paying me so much attention. The guy was 26. Yep u read that right. At the time i thought it was my decision and that it was what i wanted.

For a long time afterwards i didn't really think much about it and it is only now that i am in my mid 20's that i realise how wrong it was. I was manipulated into doing something that i deeply regret and i didn't even see it as inappropriate at the time. Looking back on it now it seems like it happened to someone else as i still to this day do not know how at 13 years old when all my friends were just starting to wear make up, i was having sex with a 26 year old man who really should have known better. Now that i am older and realise what this means, it makes me shudder as i know i was actually raped. What makes my story all the more sick is that this was not a one off, i actually continued to have sex with alot older men when i was still a school girl. It was so wrong and ... up yet at the time i thought it was all fine. These men knew exactly how old i was and hunted me like some prey in a game. I felt like i couldn't turn them down, i was just completely out of my depth. The bottom line is.. i was a child.

Please please don't make the mistake i did. Virginity should be teasured as it is a beautiful thing. When u meet someone u really like u will know when u are ready, there is no rush. Its not pathetic to be a virgin, it's pathetic to sleep with someone coz u think u are behind your friends. Believe me, when u are in your 20's this decision will come back to bite u on the butt. Make sure u can look back and smile for all the right reasons.

love ruby xx

"am i too old?"

you should be happy that you haven't succumb to peer pressure, don't feel like you have to have sex because everyone else is doing it. Save it for someone who is special to you, and that will wait until you are ready. And your not to old you are too young to have sex.

Only when you're ready

The peer pressure thing about having sex is massive. Lots of people are having sub standard sex, or even lying about how much sex, how many partners etc. The best sex you can ever have is with someone you really have a good mental connection with. And I'm talking about good friendship, great laughs, and an easy comfortable rapport, not necessarily love (although that is even better. And then comes the practice, one night stands are unlikely to lead to great sex, because normally you will need to build up knowledge of your partner, experiment and talk to them about what they want. Find someone you really like, you really fancy, and enjoy yourself. Don't do it with just anyone, bad sex is worse than no sex. It can dent your confidence and set you back.

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me...find someone who actually likes me....no chance.
i just want sex so i dont feel so pathetic and suicidal about everthing.