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I want him to enjoy our sex

Help me please =]

Ive been with my boyf for 2 and a half years and ive always felt like he never enjoys sex like i do.

I love it and think he is brilliant in bed and has a great sized penis.

Hes really fit and athletic and can go for as long as i want him to and he always makes me come loads.

The thing issss.....
He never seems to enjoy it. he takes sex as more as a chore. & if i go on top, i feel like im terrible at sex because of his facial expressions.

I just dont know wat to do..i really want him to enjoy our sex like i do.

Do you think its me?? & maybe im crap in bed??

Please Help Me xx

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Experiment

Try experimenting a little, seduce him and make the most out of forplay! Try sexy lingerie or naughty costumes with stocking and suspenders!

Maybe a little soft bondage!

Tease him a little...try dressing up in sexy lingerie or a nughty costume before he comes home, be ready to open the door, kiss him gently whilst removing his clothes (make sure you keep yours on!) then lead him to a chair where you handcuff and blindfold him! From there tease him by kissing his neck and ears, work your way down...them stop! make him lick your breasts then tickle him below with a feather tickler whilst standing behind him, kissing around his neck area. Then stadle him whilst playing with him using your hands then slowly work your way to giving him a mind blowing BJ! Then remove his blindfold and play with yourself infront of him until he can't take anymore....the rest I'm sure you can work out!

Check out www.ooshh.com for a great selection of goodies to tempt and tease from bondage to designer toys, seductive lingerie, sexy costumes, books and games!

He will be begging for more...trust me!

Have fun!

Same

before i get ppl sayin that my boyfriend may be gay.. he definitely isnt
were very open an we know thigns liek that an talk about them..

but he doesnt like sex.. not with me.. he does love it when we do have sex..

but he feel svery uncomfortable about porn. hes never , even when he was younger, been interested in it. says hes very awkward about it.

this is strange, as even though i was nver comfortable with my body (which i was soo stupid about cos i had a great figure before me baby) , i love sex..but he never wants to! every other are of are relationship is amazin! were share the same humour an have such a beautiful daughter, not to mention hes absolutley gorgeous an talented

but does anyone else have this?

i understand its a strange scenario

but he was always very shy about tellni me , cos he could never tell me without it seemin that i repulse him.. sex makes him squeamish

whats that about?

Try talk about it

Hey pop, first off you're not crap in bed! You guys have been together for 2 n half years, can't u talk about with him? It's awkward but maybe you could start by telling him how much you like what he does and ask if there's anything in particular he'd like you to do.

You say that he doesn't seem to enjoy it but how do you know? Has he said anything? The facial expressions he makes don't necessarily mean he's not enjoying it. He's maybe pulling those faces as a way of stopping himself from coming cos he's enjoying it so much!



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