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I recently went out with an old friend who i have been friends with for years. I hadnt seen her in a while so we had lots to catch up on. Every thing was just like it used 2 be until she blurtted out that she was bi. Now, i dont have a problem with gays but later on in the night she told me i was beautiful and she really fancied me. I felt really put out and decided 2 leave, now i dont know how 2 talk 2 her and she keeps phoning. The other problem is that nite she got ready at mine and being girl mate's we got changed in the same room.. underwear on... but when she was telling me she fancied me she kept on saying u have such a great body and yer boobs r amazing.. normally i'd be flattered but i felt really awkward. Please help i really want 2 b ok with this and b supportive but i dont know how 2 b around her knowing how she feels.

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just act normal as if you never knew she was bi and then maybe she will get the hint that you are obiously not interested and if that doesnt work maybe try spending less time wit that person

Honesty is the best policy

Just be honest with her - tell her that although you're totally cool with her being bi, it makes you uncomfortable if she starts telling you she fancies you and that she likes your boobs etc. If she's a good friend, she'll understand and back off. If she gets stroppy or weird about it, or doesn't back off, she's not taking your feelings into account and therefore isn't being a good friend and isn't worth your time. In that case, don't return her calls or meet up with her and she'll get the message. Hope this helps!



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