Maybe you need to do more than just refuse
its obviously her preference to enhance her self through surgery but by no means should she force this on you, was she like this when you married her. If you are comfortable with how you are you need to be with someone who is comfortable with this also.
Maybe you guys could involve a third party if you can't resolve it with normal communication, you may find out some things about each other that weren't evident before.
Surgerys really shouldn't accept appointments on peoples behalf! Its such bad ethics!!!
But to answer your question, DON'T go through surgery to make SOMEONE ELSE happy. It is YOUR body, YOUR choice and YOUR happiness. You have every right to be angry xx
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