Mine is in two days and im so so scared

im panicing like hell, only 2 days to go until my ba, and the last 2 weeks has flown by, i feel sick every time i think about it my partnet is fed up of me going on about it i think as iv gone through so many different emotions, but i am so so scared i cant believe im actually having it done, im dont take painn very well either im such a softy,

any of you ladies been in tears a few days before their op with nerves, as idont want to think im doing the wrong thing?

also around the time of the month i get lumpy boobs and its approaching that time so there already starting to feel a little tender

Dont worry

i cant offer any advice as my ba is in 13 days!!! But just think how happy you will be, and i havn't heard any horror stories on here at all!! i have been on the same rollercoaster and sometimes have actually thought is it the right thing to do - then i will get dressed or undressed and i hate it - so be strong and remember its your decision in the end and you will very happy like many others im sure

Take care
Tanya x

It's normal...

Hey claire,

I had my BA on Friday just gone and I was a complete wreck on the lead up to it, I was putting posts on here every day. I lost all my excitement, felt really low, anxious, weepy. And I am worlds worst worrier, I really went thru the 'what ifs' and the guilt of doing something entirely for myself. But when Friday morning came I was so calm, even at the hospital the nerves didn't come. Stomach went loopy when they came to get me but wasn't even fussed getting on table for anaethetic.

I don't do pain, question people about every movement they make if it involves my body, but I had overs and I am seriously in no pain. Get an odd stinging every now and then in my left boob where the drain was, but thats all. Can even brush my own hair lol.

The best advice i think i could give is for you to ask lilybon if she'll be your boobie partner. Me and suelily partnered up and it is great. We exchanged mobile numbers on here thru private messaging and text each other all day friday, and after. On the day you can think about all the other girls that have GONE thru it but to have someone GOING thru it with you on the same day is great.

Good luck, you wont need it, you'll be fine
Natasha x x

Ditto

Hi Claire

Mine is on the 14th also! I am at Highgate with Mr Chantarasak. My partner is fed of me talking boobs too! I am having 410cc as I have a choice between 380 & 410cc unders. Where are you having yours,who with and sizes etc?

I am really nervous and excited!

Take care

Nic xxx

Its normal

I felt exactly the same! But once I got there and i nwas waking up i thought yay! Now on day 5 post op definately worth the pain and discomfort

Your be fine

Alana x

weepy days

dont worry i had my ba done on friday and the week running up to it was a real rollercoaster youve come this far you obviously want it and i think most of us have had a moment like that. Dont worry too much about the pain thing the meds they give you will keep it under control. Im a bit of a softie and ive had unders which are more tender and im coping maybe some of this emotion is the dreaded pmt kicking in to add to your anxiety try to enjoy the experience and let us all know how you go on, nearly in the boobie club good luck xxxxxxxxx

Hiya

Dont worry I felt exactly the same, scared, teary and had terrible 2nd thoughts even though I knew it was what I'd always wanted. It's just last min nerves.
If it's what you want only you will know. But I think your probably just nervous. It's so much easier than you think it is.
You will be fine, try to keep busy, to take your mind off it all.
Dont worry, it being that time of the month wont affect your BA or the pain. Just makes you more teary and emotional than you would be normally. Stay strong. It's so worth it in the end. The best thing I have ever done.