"Struggling "

Hi girls, don't know if I'm the only one but I'm really finding the bd'ing a struggle at the mo!! Full of cold and really tired but we're trying the "sperm meets egg" plan this month so have been trying every other day. Today is cd15 and so far the OPKs have all been negative, thought I should have ovulated by now??

This is the first time i've used the OPK's - does anyone know how reliable they are? If we dont get lucky this month we're off to the doctors for some blood tests, feeling a bit down

Shelley xx

Maybe its just the time of year but I'm feeling blue too today. I ovulated on Dec 22 and no AF. I've tested and nothing so I'm guessing this really bad bloating (even my face!)and sore/itchy boobs is leading to an unwanted visit soon. My cycles are still messed so started using an Ov kit last month. Sorry to ramble. Just trying to say I'm feeling with ya hun. Have just ordered pizza to try and cheer up

i am in a similar situation.

i am trying the sperm meets egg for the first time, am on cd12. something always tries to crop up and me both keep trying to stick to it lol. its kinds hard knowing you have to do it on that day and not just having a mad moment of passion lol

first time trying ovulation sticks too.
some people say they are fab and others prefer different methods. i never get any mucus or other signs so i thought they are worth a try.
are you charting your temp to??

i am going to try and get in with the doctor, he told me he would refer me to the hospital after christmas.

chin up, try and think positive rant as much as you like because its is hard but think of what the new year could bring.
good luck, fingers crossed
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Haven't been charting the temps this time but might give it a go next month.

Think af will be due around 21st so will be going to the doctor after that if she turns up.

Hope things work out for you too this year xxx

I've only just bought OV tests & havn't used them yet so i can't help on that front. Maybe with the stress of Xmas & being ill etc you may OV later (if that affects it??), however I did read on here that someone had neg OV tests & got caught that mth anyway.

Fingers crossed for you xx