there are several things stopping me.. first of all i live with my parents and boyfreind i dont think my parents would appreciate it, besides i know she would go mad! (im 21 btw) the other thing is, iv only been in a new job 2months and im thining about changing that one because of the people i work with!! AND if i move out i wouldn't be able to afford to keep it... me and my boyfreind have been together 2years and have really been thinking about it..

what do you girls think ??

beci xxxxxxxx

I'd say wait too. I had a great time when I was 21, parties, friends, going on holidays, lots of different jobs meeting lots of different people. Babies never entered my head! I know everyone's different but I'd say wait a few more years, concentrate on getting a job you like and moving out, then have a rethink.

good luck Lea xx

It sounds like you have got alot going on right now. If I were you I would wait. You are still really young enjoy it. But then you are never ready to have a baby. I'm 26 with 2 boys and ready for a third. We can't afford it but then we couldn't afford the first 2. Go out and party cause once you get little ones you can't.

well yeah, but i don't drink i'd rather save my money then spend it, all my freinds at my age go out and get razzled every weekend but i don't find any jon in it, and the fact i work mostly nights lol it's not worth the morning after lol i just thought that it would be nice to have a baby i feel i am ready but like i said all those things iv'e posted before are stoppping me xxxxxxxxx