I got my bfp after 4 months of trying 2 days ago. My af was 2 days late and I took a clearblue digital, and it came up pregnant. I couldn't get excited tho, as I've had two m/c's since last September. One at 9 weeks and the next one at 7 weeks.
Yesterday I had a tiny amount (about 3 times all day) of a kind of beigish discharge, and that got me worried, but now today I had a bit of pink discharge when I went to toilet. It was only once but that was only about an hour and a half ago.
I burst out crying coz I'm expecting the worse!
I did have pink discharge the first time I was pregnant which later turned into a light brown, and I went for a scan and saw the heartbeat and was told it was fine. It was only when I had bright red blood and went for another scan that they told me I was goin to have a m/c.
The second time I was pregnant I had a very dark thick brown discharge, and went for a scan and they couldn't find anythin, so it's more like the first time really. And maybe I shouldn't worry until it's bright red.
Does anyone think it could possibly be implantation bleeding coz it's so early on??
Sorry for rambling on x

hi hun
i can totaly understand what urgoing throu,i had a m/c in feb,and the blood started off pinkish and resulted into a m/c.
but on a good note with my first pregnancy i bleed all the way throu from being 7 wks but she was born healthy.bleeding in early pregnancyis so common.try not worry and get ur self all worked up(easier said than done),ring ur doctor and ask him to scan u cos they will.hope all is well and congratulations on ur pregnancy
linzi xxxx

firstly, congrats on ur BFP.

i wont say relax coz thats impossible. i will say that bleeding in early pregnancy is a lot more common than alot of people think and the fact that its not fresh blood has to be good. try and stay positive babes. theres not alot i can say that will make you feel better so i'll send u big {{{{hugs}}}}

tc, gail xx

Just wanted to say congrats on getting your BFP and I completely understand your reservations and it is perfectly normal (I think) to be anxious like you are although it doesn't help things and definately won't change the outcome. I think you have to be a bit relaxed and not get excited and then you can't get too disappointed - well that's how I deal with things anyway.

To be honest hon, I don't think it's implantation bleeding - my understanding is that implantation happens after fertilisation and you can't get pos pg test until it implants and your body starts producing hormone properly. It could however be your body adjusting to things so don't worry.

I had my first mc at 8wks (not much bleeding at all really) and then my second pg was okay but I bled til about 19 wks (and I'm talking clots and everything!) and then I mc my third pg at 11wks (again not much bleeding) so its hard to tell - they were all different. I thought losing symptoms such as breast tenderness was an indication of mc as that happened quite suddenly in my first pg but I had sore boobs etc for a month even tho the heartbeat had stopped! It stopped growing just after the 6wk scan but I still 'felt' pg even at my scan at 11wks! Every pg is different hon. I must admit, I thought I was going to mc my 2nd pg and expected that to be the case and to be told the opposite at the scan was amazing - better than getting a BFP on the pg test! You can't give up but stay relaxed and try to chill (hard I know). The other thing is that they cannot see the heartbeat until about 6wks pg anyway so don't worry yourself about going to EPAC for scan until after this time as it will just freak you out more I think. Stay positive and relax as much as possible, all will be fine I'm sure.

I will be thinking of you chick. Well done, you're half way there! Just take each day at a time and each week is another milestone. Sorry I just realised I've written an essay but your thoughts are just the same as mine every time I get pg, its awful as you can't enjoy it.

Best wishes, take care
Bea x

P.S. There is a fab website fertilityfriends.co.uk and they have TTC page after loss and the ladies there are amazingly supportive - I'm not saying this one isn't but you can't get enough support at this worrying time. xx

I'd like to say congrats on your BFP & hope all is ok - not much help to you I know. I would maybe suggest calling your GP?

tc Caz xx

"Thanx everyone "

I'm trying to relax today and not get worked up about it all, I've even foned in sick from work. I'll go to the drs in about a week or so coz I don't think they can see much on a scan this early, and if they can't see anythin yet I'll just assume the worst.
I haven't had anymore pink stuff yet, but I have been goin to the toilet a lot to check.
It's been 6 months since my last m/c and I thought it would be different this time round, I didn't expect to have to go through this again. I do have very very sore boobs and I didn't have this the last time I was pregnant, but I did the first time.
I dunno what to think, just clinging on to any possibility. Thanx for makin me feel a bit better anyway, I'll let you know what happens.
It's good to come on here and know that there are people going through similar things to me x

just want to say i have an idea of how you feel. I m/c 6 months ago and am now pg again. I'm feeling pos most of time but sometimes am just so scared it'll happen again. I know the odds are the same but i won't be able to relax till i see a baby with a heartbeat on a scan and then i'm sure i'll still find something to worry about!

Just hang in there, there is way more chance that this baby will stick and we have to remember that.

By the way my friend had a m/c then got pg after 6 months. She had some bleeding at 6 weeks but all was ok and her little girl is now 4 months old and absolutely fine.

Feel free to pm me any time. I'm kinda floating in no-man's land as i'm too scared to go on expecting yet till i feel all is safe.

Take care hon x x x

Hi i hope it all works out for you i know how scary pregnancy is after one ectopic and a miscarriage in march this year, im pregnant now about 6 weeks and im constantly checking for any small sign of bleeding,any small pain makes me worried its one or the other. I just wanted to say im right with rachjones, im refusing to go on the expecting a baby side i did that last time early and lost the baby now im superstitious, im refusing to tell a soul only my husband knows.Until i get to 3-4 months, thats when i might relax that at least its none of the previous. I know ill still be freaking out about what else could possibly go wrong! I cant wait to be pregnant and actually have it be a joyful occasion

for the reply. Things seem to be ok at the moment, but like you I won't be able to relax until I see the heartbeat on a scan. And I won't be able to properly relax until after the first 12 weeks. Seems sooo far away.
I get my moments when I feel positive all of a sudden and then times when I'm just expectin it to all go wrong again. How far gone are you then? I'll be 5 weeks tomoro, god feels like I've known alot longer lol.
I've been goin back and for between trying and exoecting, coz I don't really feel like I belong anywhere now either lol xx

how's things?
I'm 7+1 but according to my doc and midwife but think i may be about 6 as had a long cycle. Either way, still got many weeks till scan!! The sensible part of me says, just chill out and take it easy, what will be will be and nothing i do will change that.

Fingers crossed eh? x x x

I'm not feelin too bad at the mo. 5+2 weeks today.
I've had mainly clear discharge the past few days, but every now and then it's tinged with a little bit of very light colour. When I went to the toilet early this morning I had a small amount of light brown discharge when I wiped, but nothin since.
Trying hard not to worry about it. Waiting til Friday to go to the doctors.
It just doesn't feel like last time tho, I been feelin more positive recently.
Fingers and toes crossed for us both xx

To be honest, im terrified, but trying to keep my chin up. Hubbys telling me be positive and i am trying. Im not as bad now as times passing m feeling better. I think its worse as im away from home havent seen my dr yet so panicing a little dont know why! According to what i checked myself im about 6 weeks now, though i think im behind maybe about 5 myself. I was worried as i hadnt been having any symptoms what so ever, except the obvious lack of AF, but now sore boobs are kicking in, smells make me retch and signals of morning sickness are rumbling so i think i might start to believe i am actually pregnant now, but i dont want to say it out loud

we need our own forum! I can't help feeling superstitious too. Have told my oh, mum and dad, sister in law and 2 people at work cos they need to know as my work can be heavy at times. Other than that lot, i'm telling no-one and even tho i'll answer threads on expecting i'm not going on till scan.

Keep up the positive thinking girls! x x x

what would it be called? pregnant and scared haha problem is everyone would be too scared to post in it, would be a little dead. i only glanced on that side im refusing even to put my mark there! oh the sickness is the worst at the moment everything makes me feel like being sick, every smell turns my stomach one moment im craving something the next it makes me want to vomit. Honestly, its a pain. I still havent told a soul and wont until maybe my bump starts to show! or if its a small bump ill wear baggy clothes and tell them when i bring the baby home haha

I've told my fiance, my mum and dad and a few people at work, coz like you I had to really. I work in a pet shop and now I'm pregnant I can't go near any of the animals lol so I'm a bit useless now. Gonna tell my sis and cousin when I've had an early scan, as I'm hoping I can go for one after I go to the drs on Friday. Then I'm not telling anyone else at all until after the 12 week scan.
I haven't had any more problems, and I've even been feeling quite sick and off my food so hoping that it's a good sign.
Good luck to everyone else! xx

i have just read all your posts and totally agree we should have a early pregnancy forum!! It is so scary and the expecting page all seem nice but are all about to give birth!!!
The last 7 weeks have been really long and i know how you are all feeling. BUT it really does get quicker I have found that time stood still for weeks and then after 9 weeks it has flown by.
angelbaby I hope you get your scan this week I was scanned at 6+5 after some spotting and was freaked out but the scan was reassuring.
saucysassy- the sickness sounds good mine started about 6 weeks and carried on till ten weeks horrible but also very reassuring.
and Rachjones keep in there hun and try not to do much lifting at work etc,

I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you all

rach xxxxx (11)

Everything seemed to be goin great for nearly a week, I had no funny discharges, I had a sick feeling most of the time, sore boobs that seemed a little bit bigger and I'd gone off certain foods. While I do still have all these symptoms, last night when I got out of the bath I had some blood come out. It wasn't bright red, it was more of a dark pink really and only happened once, and now it's turned into brown discharge, but I'm not very hopeful.
I was goin to go to the drs last friday, but felt like things were finally goin right so I changed my mind. Now, I'm def goin there tomoro. I work Sundays so I've had to phone in sick again.
After having 2 m/c's I'm now convinced it's all over again xx

hi sorry to hear about what happened its so stressful having something like that happen and everyone tells you to relax and thats the last thing you can do. Ive been putting off going to the docs as i always seem to have bad experiences with them but ive noticed some blood spotting so im getting there asap all we can do is keep chin up i suppose, so many strange things happen in pregnancy. I hope it all works out fine for you

I really hope its ok for you today , definitely get it checked asap and i will keep my fingers crossed for you, take care rach xxx

I went to the drs this morning first thing, and they made me an appointment at the EPU at 11:15 today. It was horrible being back there but for some reason I felt kind of positive.
I had a scan and the woman didn't say anything for ages so I thought, oh no that can't be good, but then she said, well I can see something and theres a heartbeat. She showed me it and it was amazing to see. It measured the right size and she said it's all fine.
I have to go back for another scan in ten days to make sure everything is still ok.
I saw a heartbeat with my first m/c but once the bleeding started I had another scan and they couldn't find the heartbeat anymore, so this is different. I haven't had any problems now since Saturday night, so my fingers are crossed that this one is gonna stick. Hope all is ok with everyone else xx

Just replied to your post on expecting but really pleased for you and hope the next ten days go quickly. I am getting good at wishing time away!!! rach xxx