hi all
well af has been and gone and i felt ok but got told last nite that 4 people i no are expecting.well now im feeling angry,jelous,gutted,hrt and allthe rest what goes with it as you ladies no.i feel like it will never be my turn and my dp is 37 with a low sprem count its so unfair.i no im lucky as im blessed with my beatiful girl who im so grateful for,its just i never wanted a only child,but cos i got pregnanat at 17 i didnt wonna be one of them young mums with 3 kids by the time there 21,so im now feeling sorry for myself you no girls if wed of opend r legs to anyone wed all have 50 kids by now.lifes shite(pardon my french).sorry about my moan tc linzi xxxxxx

hi all im 26 and my partner is 35 he had a vasectomy reversal 3 years ago mand tests show he had live sperm and there swimming at 60% his surgeon says theres no reason i cant get pregnant but still nothing everywhere i look theres pregnant women and sex is becoming a chore i m so depressed and sick of people saying it will happen sometimes wish i was a slag and could just go sleeping around maybe i should become a cat lol good luck babe xxx

I am in the same boat as you my other half is 41 I have a gorgeous daughter so feel as though i am being selfish wanting more when some peeps cant have one but i am longing so much i know about 5 people that are expecting one off them being my best mate so hard I am only 25 so still young but it took 5 years for me to have my first now i am so worried that i will never have another baby hope we are both lucky baby dust to you hun
Lisa x

hey there is always 'wot if' im 27 an had a termination at 16... the first time i had sex.... ive been wiv the best bloke ever for5 years an bin tryin for over a year.... i feel its my karma coming back and not letting me get pregnant an to make things harder, i work wiv a girl that is pregnant by my first boyfreind although it was years ago im well envious!

Same sort of situation. Had an abortiong when I was 19 and now me and my husband have been trying for a while and the thoughts of bad karma are starting to enter my mind same as you, do I deserve to have a child what if something went wrong with the abortion. Also just turned 30 so can hear the biological clock ticking louder and louder. Everybody seem to be having babies at the moment left right and centre. Most friends having their second child and when going to meet our friend BBQ etc all the kids are there and we are supposed to be having a good time and all I can think about is how much I want a baby, how jealous I am. Well fingers crossed all goes well and we will have a child when it is the right time. Best of luck to you!!

to moan why not all i can think is how crap life is and why its so unfair. Im here struggling possibly about to lose my second baby to m/c, 3 over all and i have friends who got knocked up at 16 when they didnt want their babies, and very nearly aborted them. And i look around and see people i know who do nothing but abuse their body and still carry a baby full term. Its miserable. My hubbys family are all expecting us to pop out babies everyone around is having them his sister just had her second and whats annoying is that our kids would be the same age as i was pregnant same time as her 1st time and her 2nd would be just a few months older than ours, so i look at her baby and think how i could have one like that running around. But i have nothing. Sometimes i just want to resign myself to the fact itll never happen and move on, but its never that easy.

im in a similar situation myself. im trying for my second and like you didnt want just one child. For the sake of my partner i agreed to put a second child on hold for a few years, well my son is now five and ive been trying for 15mths for my second. im trying not to feel resentful towards my partner but i feel that if i hadnt waited i could have had my family and they would be growing up i would not just have had 1.

and everywhere you look theres pregnant women!!!!

But its understandable how you feel and you shouldnt feel guilty for having a moan. Go a head have a moan and have one for me too while your at it, lol.