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Getting scared now!

Hey, chelsea here anyone due 15th march? i am, and absolutely pooing my pants lol, not literally obviously! its my first baby and i just dont know what to expect with the labour n everything. Any advice for a scared mommy to be?

chelsea and baby boy bump xxxx 34+3 xxxx

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Am veryy scaredd

Its my first baby am soo scaredd ppl r telling me all differents fings like what the pain is like, i watched a video today at 1 of my classes + her giving birth looked so scarey + i am terefiiedd any advisee pleasee any1 hehe
Lishaa

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i had my baby 7 mth ago,,,and birth was absolutely fine,,,if you scared you will make it worse cuz you tense,,,,try to read hipnobirth book thet helped me so much and i vas calm trough the birth a didnt even had to push my babay out i just breth her out,,, it vas very good experience im not scared to have another baby,,,,just remember to stay calm and trust your body its know what to do
good luck x

Xxx

when i wa pregnant the 1st time people told me wot it wa like but it wa much worse than people said.
Im not gonna sugar coat it for you hun,it is so painful i felt like i wa gonna die i wa in labour for 12 hours and was only 3cm you think it can get any worse but then it does,i started on saturday night and had my daughter on monday morning i said id neva do it again but im pregnant again.
The pain is so bad if the contractions lasted any longer id of passed out with the pain...take every pain relief you can im not tryin to scare you,just expect the worse then times it by a million xx

Hey chelsea...

I had my baby on 8th Jan.He is now 5wks old and is absolutely lovely! this was my first and i did not know what to expect, did not go to antenatal classes or anything! the only few bits of advice i can give you is to relax first of all, getting yourself worked up over it before it happens will not do you or the little one any good. Secondly, when you are in labour breathe long deeps breaths works wonders and by god take whatever drugs they will give you..i had diamorphine and it was brilliant! Trust me i know people will keep telling you this but once you have that gorgeous baby in your arms you will forget all the pain. the best you can do is just take it as it comes!

hope this helps! love Hayles n 5wk 4day old Finlay xxx

Im scared too!

Im Due Later Than You On The 21st April With A Baby Boy Too
Im Really Scared 2 Hun, Your Not Alone
He Will Be My First Baby And I Really Don't Know What 2 Expect...
Good Luck, Im Sure You Will Be Great

Candice 33 Weeks & 5 Days Blue Bump
xO



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