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Hi everyone, im 19 and a student my first day back of being in my last year was yesterday n yesterday i found out i was pregnant I told my boyfreind of 2 years and he was ok about it (he didnt run a mile) but he wants me to have a termination but as the days gone past ive been thinking about it and have decided i want to go through with this.. i know i cn do it if i put my mind to it... and everytime i think about getting rid of it i get upset and start crying.. i really dont think i could do it... im guilt tripping myself now just for thinking about it.

But my question is how do i make my bf understand that i feel i cn do this when he really dosnt want it???

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Hi!

All I can advise is that you have to do what is right for you.

Having an abortion just because your bf wants you to have one is not the answer as you will end up resenting him for the decision and it will destroy not only you but the relationship as well.

You need to both sit down and talk about it together or even with a doctor or close friend that can help as well.I do feel though that at the end of the day you have to so what is right for you.

Good luck



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