I went for a emerency scan monday 5th Nov, following spotting, brown mucus, which everyone said is normal around the 12 week mark, because of your period would of been due. I had a gut feeling something was wrong like I did the last pregnancy, so this is the second time for me the same has happened, went for a 8 week scan everything fine, heart beating, went for the scan day before I thought 12 weeks, the heart beat had stopped, I was gutted, couldn,t stop crying, they said it died at 8weeks but my body hadn't rejected it yet, although the spotting was a sign
The day after they booked me in for D&C, never had a operation was really really nervous about being put to sleep, next thing I woke up it was all over, last time I had to continue with my body disposing of it by its self and saw everything pass out, it was mentally scarring. I was starting to get cramps with heavier bleeding and my tummy was really tender like a football in the stomach that shouldn't been there, after the pain, tenderness disappeared, lefted with bleeding.
I am now sitting here day after, the odd outburst of crying, trying to find answers on hte internet why the heartbeat keeps stopping causing now 2 miscarriages. I can't settle doing anything like reading, knitting, stitching. I feel really low, grumpy, and empty that I am not pregnant anymore and as well it took 2 years to concieve as I have poly cycist ovaries which makes it more harder.
Has anyone else had more than one miscarriage and been given any idea why it happens more than once.
Nicki, I also am very sorry to hear your news and know exactly what you are going through Jane Reevo

I had my scan today after I started bleeding on Saturday at what I thought was 10 weeks into my pregnancy.

Anyway scan showed a 71/2 week sac and no fetal heartbeat...a missed miscarriage.

Fortunately I was able to go to theatre and had a d&c at about 3pm this afternoon. Now am at home resting.

Good news,such as it is,they could see no obvious reason for the loss and have just advised that we wait a month,have a normal period and then can try again.

So I am just hoping things return to normal quickly.

Nicki

Hi Nicki,
Sorry to hear your news. I've never posted on here before but felt like I needed to hear stories from other people.

I had a missed miscarriage last week at 12 weeks. I had felt fine all through but had a tiny bit of spotting so was sent for a scan a week early which showed the fetus at a tiny 6 weeks and no heart beat.

I seem to feel up and down - good days where I'm really positive about trying again and days when I can't stop crying. I think this is normal and just hormones. Going back to work tomorrow - just want to get back to normal.

Hope you feel better soon - Am wishing away time til can try again and feel a bit guilty that I'm not grieving more....

Dee

I went for a emerency scan monday 5th Nov, following spotting, brown mucus, which everyone said is normal around the 12 week mark, because of your period would of been due. I had a gut feeling something was wrong like I did the last pregnancy, so this is the second time for me the same has happened, went for a 8 week scan everything fine, heart beating, went for the scan day before I thought 12 weeks, the heart beat had stopped, I was gutted, couldn,t stop crying, they said it died at 8weeks but my body hadn't rejected it yet, although the spotting was a sign
The day after they booked me in for D&C, never had a operation was really really nervous about being put to sleep, next thing I woke up it was all over, last time I had to continue with my body disposing of it by its self and saw everything pass out, it was mentally scarring. I was starting to get cramps with heavier bleeding and my tummy was really tender like a football in the stomach that shouldn't been there, after the pain, tenderness disappeared, lefted with bleeding.
I am now sitting here day after, the odd outburst of crying, trying to find answers on hte internet why the heartbeat keeps stopping causing now 2 miscarriages. I can't settle doing anything like reading, knitting, stitching. I feel really low, grumpy, and empty that I am not pregnant anymore and as well it took 2 years to concieve as I have poly cycist ovaries which makes it more harder.
Has anyone else had more than one miscarriage and been given any idea why it happens more than once.
Nicki, I also am very sorry to hear your news and know exactly what you are going through Jane Reevo

Im so sorry about what has happened to you, the same happened to me a few weeks ago.It will get better big hugs to you xx

I am so sorry to hear your news.
Just want to send you loads of love and a great big hug.
kerry
xxx

sorry to hear about your loss{hugs} i 2 had a loss 19 days ago and things returned back to normal as i ov 3days ago altho i wasnt as far as u but im kinda hoping for a least one period before i become preg again, hopefully things will return for u just as quick, as i can imagine your wanting to be preg again pretty soon! takecare & all the best for the future xx michelle

so sorry hun, know you were expecting the worst but it's still an awful shock. Feel useless cos there's not really anything I can say but am sending hugs and am here anytime if you need a sympathetic ear. Take care,

love, Clare xxx

This is a horrible time. There isnt anything I can say to help you feel better but but I hope time helps you heal quickly.

Thinking of you and sending my love.

Sarah. xx