I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago at about 5/6 weeks, i had a few days of bleeding and a lot of pain. I was referred to hospital a week afterwards and had an awful unsympathetic reception as well as.....whatever could go wrong did, from them sending me to the wrong place intially.

I cant stop crying all the time (as well as this im having to try and move house) and ive been on my own with no support, can someone please help me.

I echo what the others on here have said...just give yourself time!

I had a m/c at 5wks in August and had a missed m/c at 10 wks and a d&c last Thursday.

It takes time,not only for the hrmones to leave your body but also for your emotions to deal with everything that has happened.Moving house is stressful enough without the emotions connected with hcg.

WE are all here for you and you can rant away to any of us,we do appreciate how you feel.

Big Hugs to you

Nicki x

Hi hun, I know it's hard to lose your baby, I've lost 2 in just over 12 months. You're not on your own and the way that you are feeling is normal. Even if you're in a room full of people who love you, you still feel alone. It takes time to get over it, both physically and emotionally so give your self time to adjust.

I cried all the time, as time went on I'd have days when I thought I was fine then before I knew it I was in tears on my bed punching the pillow again. You will experience so many emotions but remember, we are all here for you, we know how it feels and we will support you any way we can.

You will begin to feel better, I know it seems a long way off at the moment but I promise it isnt. Marking the loss of your baby is a good way of greiving, my oh and I took two white roses to the sea to say goodbye to our first baby and we let two balloons into the sky for our second. I found it really helped my healing process.

I've just found out I'm 4+2 weeks pregnant after losing my last baby in July. There is light at the end of the tunnel, just dont keep things locked inside, if you need to rant, talk, cry or scream, do it. We'll here for you. PM me if you need anything.

Thinking of you.

Love and hugs

Sarah. xx

Hey hun, im so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a m/c 3 months ago and am still not completely over it now, i dont think we ever will be.

It makes matters much worse for you as you had a bad time at the hospital.

I was crying everyday and some days i would cry all day. Not only are you grieving for your loss but your body is going through massive hormonal changes.

The one thing that really seemed to help me come to terms with it is this website. You can have a rant and rave to complete strangers and the best thing is everyone understands what your going through!

Have you got a close friend or a relative you are close to so that you can confide in them and tell them how you are feeling? Or alternativly there should be counsellers linked to your GP.

I no it feels like you are alone but you are not at all.

message me anytime you want a moan, or just someone to talk to..

take care

big hugs

kate xxx

I just typed a long reply and it wouldnt post! So now i will keep this short..

I had an eptopic pregnancy and had to have methotrexate to termintate the pregnancy at 6+1 wks.
it is now nearly 5 weeks since the injection and i have gone through allsorts of emotions and feelings.
You must remember that there are Still pregnancy hormones (HCG) in your body and they do not disappear overnight.
Like i said before.. my pregnancy was terminated nearly 5 wks ago and last wednesday my HCG levels were 13..
As for the bleeding.. AHHHH ive not stopped since the 9th of september.. some days lighter than others.. that really gets me down..

So however you feel or if you have any questions then feel free to ask.

Nikki X X

I just tried to pm you but it wouldnt send. I'm going to try again later. I didnt want you to think I wasnt answering.

I hope you're alright hun.

I'll speak to you later.

Sarah. xx