After reading some of the messages on here it made me come to terms with what has happened to me. After being told my new husband and i wouldn't be able to have children, we found out i was pregnant, at 5 weeks i was told it was eptopic and taken to surgery. When i came out i was told it was a mistake and it was a normal pregnancy but because of the surgery i had a chance of misscarriage. Two weeks later it was confirmed the baby was fine. I went for a scan at 13 weeks and was told my baby had a serious problem and to come back and see a consultant.My baby was diagnosed with anancephly and although i could carry full term he would die within days of being born we were advised for a medical termination. On 7th november 07 i gave birth to a little boy named Alfie he was 10cm long and weighed 0.2oz. We had his funeral on 12th november

what a terrible time you have been through. So many ups and downs. How are you feeling? I can't imagine how hard it is for you and yout husband. All I can say is that us girls seem to be made of tough stuff and slowly but surely the pain will ease. I miscarried last Monday and it is by far the most painful thing I have ever been through but I am taking comfort from my gorgeous and lovely boyfriend, family, friends and this forum cos the girls on here are lovely and really understand.
Take care
Rach x

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so sorry to hear what happened to you. It brought a tear to my eyes. I wish i had found this site when i had first had my mc, the girls here have really helped each other, its good to know that you have somewhere to go when you dont know where to turn to to get the help we all need after mcing.
Take Care.
Lis 15+6