Hello,

Using this site has really helped me these last few days, from your advise i had a long discusson with my partner last night, he has made me feel so much better, the thing is, when i M/C 5 weeks ago i had 2 days off work then i went striaght back even though i was in agonising pain thing was i wanted to get back to normal i got through christmas without talking about it not even to my partner, now i think iv had a bit of a breakdown, as i cant stop crying and thinking about it all the time, the doctors have gave me some tablets for shock and im struggling, I just want you all to please not give up hope, please dont shut your partner out and try to talk about your feelings. this site has really been a life saver for me. some days can be harder than others, today is a hard one for me.

Take care

Sorry to hear you're not feeling the best today but so glad you talked to your partner, at least he knows how you feel now and can try to help you through this. Don't know why but a lot of us seem to think we have to soldier on as if nothing's happened and it's really no wonder we end up breaking down, whichever way you look at it you have suffered a loss and will need time to grieve so don't feel bad about admitting you're struggling or asking for help, my doc has been wonderful but must be sick of the sight of me by now! I didn't start to feel better until I'd let myself feel like s**t if you know what I mean, burying your feelings doesn't work, they have to come out sometime. This site saved my life too and talking on here has helped more than I can say, we're here if you need us hun and we know exactly how you're feeling so don't ever feel alone.

Lotsa love and hugs,
Clare xxx