hi there,
so sorry for your losses, i have an 8 yr old son but fell pregnant 12 weeks ago, i went for my first scan yesterday and found out i lost the baby when i was around 5 weeks. i feel devestated how do you come to terms with it?

Hi ladies.
I had my scan yesterday and it as all come away as they put it. I started to bleed very heavy on Tuesday lunch time and had very bad cramping so kind of guessed that it was happening naturally. I am glad I didn't have to go for the d and c in the end. Feel so empty now just trying to stay strong now and moving on. Easy said than done I no. Both me and Hubby had some blood took yesterday as they are looking into it further now this is my 3rd m/c.
Thanks for all your support. You ladies are always there.
Thanks again.
Vic xxx

Fortunately you are one step ahead of me.

As mine was a chemical pregnancy there was nothing to scan for so I just have to wait for the blood results which although the hospital said would only take 24hrs I have to wait until the end of this week and hope they have made it to my doctors.

Once my GP has them I can them get them to refer me and I have a close friend who has other fertility issues and apparently it only takes about 4 to 6 weeks before you are seen.It is quite handy really as my friend is a good surce of advice a she has been through so much.

Keep in touch hun and as it will be good to hear how you are getting on.

Love Nicki x

hi there,
so sorry for your losses, i have an 8 yr old son but fell pregnant 12 weeks ago, i went for my first scan yesterday and found out i lost the baby when i was around 5 weeks. i feel devestated how do you come to terms with it?

coming to terms with what's happened takes time and we all deal with it in our own way but I promise you won't feel this awful forever, it does get easier. You've had a massive shock and it's important not to rush yourself, your body and mind will need time to recover but you do get there in the end even though it won't feel like it now. This forum really helped me and I hope we can be there for you too, message anytime if there's anything I can do and please take care of yourself, that's the most important thing right now.

Lots of love,
Clare xxx

aww hun its awful.i went for my scan on wed as i lost all mine tuesday night but i think its worse cos its not there
linzi

seems wrong to say I'm glad things happened naturally for you but know how worried you were about a possible D&C so hope you'll know what I mean. It's good that they're doing tests, again it sounds wrong to say I hope they find something but there's several things that could provide an explanation as to why this has happened to you and can be easily treated, in some ways I'd have preferred that to my tests coming back clear and giving me no answers and no guarantee that it wouldn't happen again. Know that empty feeling only too well and things will still be very raw for you but I have everything crossed that things will turn out for you in the future and that you'll get through this horrible time in your life. You sound like a strong lady and you're absolutely right, we are all here for you if you need us. Wishing you the very best of luck, take care sweetheart.

Lotsa love,
Clare xxx

Hi Vic,
i know how much you wanted things to happen naturally & im pleased things went your way (even in these harrowing circumstances) All the best with your tests & any future pregnancies, your such a strong women to go through everything you have, thanks for your messages & support even when you've been going through hell yourself! Your so kind.

Love Hellen XxX