I know it i just got out from shower and i started to bleed heavily for ages and a big lump has come out and i know thats my baby gone I cant deny im on my way to hospital atleast the pain has stopped physically but mentally im so distraught i wanna curl up and sleep forever im so sad its happened to me i so wanted my little baby

i'm so sorry. I m/c last nov and the first few days after were weird, think i was in a bit of a daze. I slept a lot and altho felt so empty and also felt a weird sense of calm, i think cos i'd been so frightened and was relieved that i was ok. Take care hon, take time out, pamper yourself and go with your feelings. We're here if you need us.

Rach x x x

well had scan and it confirmed most of baby had come away and i knew id lost so many clots went to doc and straight away he performed d and c i wasnt happy about it and nearly ran away because I wanted it to happen naturally but where im living now they say its not the procedure and knowing my luck something worse wouldve happened. it was the most horrible experience of my life but its some hours later and im feeling so much better and im even smiling and joking more than I have in weeks now its happened its like theres nothing I can do and atleast its no more false hope. me too I had ectopic first time and now this Im beginning to wonder if itll ever happen for me and I knew this would happen as both my grandmothers and my mother had a miscarrage but I should have faith as one has 8 sons, one had 5 kids and my mum had 4 so shouldnt get myself down but not easy.

awww hun i no how you feel i found out a wk ago on monday and it came away a wk on tuesday i didnt even get dressed (only to go the hossie),i cried for days on end.im starting to feel better now its been just over a wk ,i wont let it beat me wewere trying for 17 month and i had a eptopic before that.but i still cry you no have a off day.but i will be pregnabt again,,,,
i no that nobody can say or do anything right now,,,but it will be easier,and im sorry
tc love linzi

I'm so sorry. I've been through it 3 times so know there's very little anyone can say, just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. Please let us know how you get on at the hospital as soon as you're up to it, I'm here anytime you want to talk.

All my love,
Clare xxx