Me and my wife found out our baby had died at 39 and a half weeks my wife had to carry her for 2 more days then was induced and gave birth without pain relief not by choice it all happened so fast there was no time for epidural we spent 5 hours in the hospital with her leaving my daughter was the hardest thing I've ever had to do i feel like part of me has died. I'm arranging a funnrel at the moment and it all seems so unfair she was so beautiful we took pictures and had hand and footprints to to someone who has never been through this it may seem strange but its all we have i feel like my world is falling apart but my lovely wife and 22 month old daughter keep me going things will get better i know its going to take a while but they will but I'll never forget my beautiful baby i miss her so much.javaocument.quest.submit();
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im new to the sight, i feel so alone and empty at the moment, my baby Sienna was stillborn at 41 weeks. it just dosnt make sense i did everything right. she was born on the 27th of febuary weighing 8lbs 11 onzes they said everything was healthy. Just having to wait for post mortan results. she was moving around so much the day befour i had a routine check she was due to be delievered. and they told me they couldnt find a heartbeat. I remember my partner screaming, i cant remember anything after that i went into shock. Sienna was delievered by a c- section. I prayed so much that she would be alive when they pulled her out, i waited for her to cry, but nothing. I knew then it was real. I was aaloud to keep her in hospital for 5 days, she is beautifull. it just dosnt make sense. xx

Hi my name is Melissa, i lost my baby girl Lacey, i was 25 weeks. no one should have to go through this, she was alive for only 20min. I feel for you and your family, to get so close, and then to have her taken away like that, you would ask yourself everyday the same question as i do, why me?
I am having alot of trouble getting through each day without her, i carnt talk to anyone about it cause they dont no what it like, and how painfull it is, but you do, you no exactily what it's like everyday without your little girl. I vist Laceys grave as often as i can, it upset's me so much, but i feel so close to her when im there.Lacey's 1st birthday is coming up in september, not sure how that's gunna go. Im feeling for you and hope you can find some sort of sense out of what happened to Sienna, stay strong and talk to those around you, i will try to do the same. thinking of you, melissa NSW Australia.

hi hun
i honestly dont no wot u r going through,i had a m/c at 7 1/2 wks i thats bad enough,so i couldnt begain to imagine and to be honest i dont no wot to say to you.but if you ever need to talk you can pm me at any time,you dont have to go through this by yourself
tc linzi

Me and my wife found out our baby had died at 39 and a half weeks my wife had to carry her for 2 more days then was induced and gave birth without pain relief not by choice it all happened so fast there was no time for epidural we spent 5 hours in the hospital with her leaving my daughter was the hardest thing I've ever had to do i feel like part of me has died. I'm arranging a funnrel at the moment and it all seems so unfair she was so beautiful we took pictures and had hand and footprints to to someone who has never been through this it may seem strange but its all we have i feel like my world is falling apart but my lovely wife and 22 month old daughter keep me going things will get better i know its going to take a while but they will but I'll never forget my beautiful baby i miss her so much.javaocument.quest.submit();
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Oh hun im so sorry I cant imagine how you must be feeling and theres nothing anyone can say I imagine because even after a miscarriage I felt so empty and i was just 9 weeks then. All I can say is the same thing happened to my sister in law just over 2 years ago now and she just gave birth to her second healthy baby since then. I know youre probably not thinking ahead til then at this moment in time. I wish you all the best and you came to right place cos if you want to scream and shout and rant and rave and you feel like you have to put on a strong front with everyone else, then here is the place to do it because theres always someone here who will listen. Good luck for future.

aww hun i just really dont no what to say to you..
i gad a m/c nearly 3 wks ago but i was only 8 wks,and im finding that hard to deal with,so i cant imagine how hard it is for you n ur hubby,im thinking of you both ive got goose bumps reading this,your not alone were here if you need us and you can pm me any time,or if you need to chat well go on chat,i no its not fair and god nos why theese type of things happen,they say god only takes the best......
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I can't imagine how hard and awful this must be for you and your family. You are being so brave. I hope that as time passes that the pain will lessen for you and you will be able to find some peace.
Come and talk to us any time and we will try and help as much as we can.

Take care, Rach x

I almost don't know what to say. This has really brought tears to my eyes - this is one of the saddest stories I've read in a long time. I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear what's happened and I just wish you so much strength so you can begin to recover.

I've not been through what you have, I've miscarried and I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant again and completely terrified to the point where I feel I'm going mad some days. Aswell as future miscarriages I also worry daily about stillbirth so reading your story just broke my heart.

We are all here if you need anyone to bounce off or talk to, I hope that your days start to get better soon and life can get back on track. Sienna will always be a part of you no matter what, no one can take that away.

Love to you at this horrible time.
N xxx

What an awful thing to experience. I cannot begin to understand how you are feeling.

Please do not feel alone we are always hear to listen to you and we will try to help as best we can.

Love Nicki x

it means so much knowing that people are here to listen. theres so much to sort out At the moment with Siennas funeral. i just wish i could turn back the time, and make everything ok. me and my partner want to give Sienna a brother or sister, were never going to replace her she will always be my daughter my angel. we just need something to keep us going. i have to wait at least 3 months as ive had a c section but im just so scared it will happen again. xx

I'm am so, so sorry. You must be going through hell. I have never been in your situation (I've had 2 miscarriages) and so have no personal experience of it but I am her to listen if you'd like to PM me.
I do know that you are prob feeling v lonely so please don't hesitate if you fancy sounding off.

Thinking of you.

xxx

Hiya,
I am so sorry to have read your post, you are living every womens worst nightmare, the pain must be so so raw! All of us on here have experienced loss but i think your loss is a million times that.

Ive been through 2 miscarriages but both in the very early stages & the grief is haunting so there isnt anything I can say to make things easier for you but if you ever want to get things off your chest or have a chat then you are in the right place, the ladies on here are like angels & you'll always find someone to listen to you.

Deepest sympathies to you & your family at this sad time.

Hellen xXx