on 27th september 2007 i had a miscarriage i was 5 weeks + 3 days! me and my partner were heartbroken! we was told to wait for 1 period before trying again! we did that and we have still had no luck! every month i have had a period but they are so irregular! some months i bleed for the whole month none stop! i have just stopped bleeding after 5 weeks!

i'm due back at the docs next week to have some tests started to see what the problem is! its driving me mad seeing newborn babies and pregnant women! i cant bear to look at them cs i feel i should have mine by now!

has anyone else experienced anything like this after a miscarriage? xx

to hear about your m/c.

I am in a similar situation. I had an incomplete m/c on Oct last year @ around 6 weeks and an ERPC in November.

My AF's all over the place, 2 weeks, 8 weeks etc but when AF did visit it was only for a few days. I finally had two 28-35 day cycles after 6 months. Now i'm on CD37 and still waiting! It's driving me mad. I don't know whether to get my hopes up and do a HPT or accept my cycles haywire still and keep waiting for AF.

Unfortunately my GP wasn't very understanding and suggested I didn't know what a 'normal' cycle was anyway so I should be more patient. Trying to pluck up the courage to go ask again if/when get AF this cycle.

Not sure this helps you much but maybe even just to know that everyones body reacts differently and you're not the only one who wasn't lucky enough to snap straight back into a standard cycle.

And you're also not the only one that feels like everyone else is suddenly pregnant or has babies. I seem to be surrounded by them too

Lots of stick baby dust heading your way

Sarah
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wow sorry to hear that, it does sound really bizarre, were your periods like this before your m/c? At least doctors are going to do something for you, might give you a reason. I have to say my m/c was over and done with quite quick, like i had a tiny amount of bleeding on day one, heavily by day 3 and then it finally happened after 4 days and i had a d and c straight away, bleeding stopped pretty much straight away. My next period came after like 4 weeks, then the one after came really early like 3 weeks after again. thats why i didnt know when to expect my next one, but it turned out i was pregnant then but i didnt know when to test as i didnt have a clue when i would have ovulated.

It is bad when you see new babies and its like they are everywhere isnt it, i had my m/c and it was in a clinic where it was like maternity day and all, so i came out after the procedure and there were babies everywhere. And whats more my OH sis then had her baby like a month later. But your time will come keep that in mind, and keep on trying.

hi thanx for the response, yeh my periods have been quite difficult! i didn't have to have a d&c as it all came away! i saw it too held it in my hand and sobbed like a baby!! as i was at my friends house i had no choice but to flush it! i felt it come out too but thought it was yet another clot, but when i looked properly it was a white ball! it broke my heart to think i flushed my baby away but i had no choice!

we've stopped trying at the minute, waiting to see what news the doctors bring!!

thanx for the advice its really appreciated! x