Currently having a miscarriage

Just thought id put a little note on here just to get it off my chest....

My little bean would have been 9 weeks now and i went for a scan on Thurs to be told it must have died around 6 weeks as the fetal sack was only that old. That night i passed quite a bit of material and i am bleeding heavy now.
They want to scan again on Thurs but i dont want to go again....dont want a D&C would rather do it naturally thanks very much!! (obviously unless there are complications)

so sad

Take care everyone,

Lou xxx

Dont know what happens now, can someone tell me?

I only found out last Friday that I was pregnant. I was extremely shocked as I am 44 and have a 22 & 19 year old. This morning, Saturday,my scan showed that the fetus had no heat beat. Thursday night I had bad cramps, they were gone the next morning. At the moment I have mild uncomfortable cramps and some abdominal discomfort but have had no bleeding. Can this still happen and if not, what happens next? I feel sick, and sad and guilty and angry and I hope and pray that my 22 yr old daughter never has to experience this.

Hi sharon

I hope this message reaches you in time to help you feel some comfort.

I had a m/c in Feb this year at 5.5 weeks. Re the cramps you are describing what happened to me when I started to miscarry. I had cramps on the Saturday then a light discharge/bleed on Sunday night and then nothing until the Wednesday/Thursday when it really started happening. As Vic says though you may need a D&C. If you aren't sure of what's happening next you should definately get in touch with your healthcare worker/GP.

I went back to mine so many times because I just didn't know what was happening, it was a horrible time. I really feel for you I totally understand how distressing it is. I hope that six days on you are feeling slightly improved and at least know what is happening with you.

Sending you peace and love, S x

Hey hun

i am sorry you have to go through this i know exacley how you feel, everyones m/c is diff but sometimes you need a d n c to help your body dispose (sorry not shore how to say it) the baby etc, are you going back to the hosp? some people bleed very heavy some dont it all depends. have you tryed talking to someone?xx

Hey hunny

I am so sorry you are going through a MC i hav been trough 3 my self and i know how arful they can be, well go back and tell them you want to go through it naturally and i went to my Gp and got some councilling. i am hee if you want to talk xxx

Thanks hun...

Yeh i've been through one before and they really get you down don't they...
I'm just thankful that my body is doing its job and obviously found something wrong and sorted it out...
I think ill be alright, i'm staying very positive and my little daughter helps soooo much with all her little hugs and of course my hubbie has been a star bless him xxxx

TC

Lou xxxx