Silent miscarriage and when to try again

Last Tuesday I went for my 12 week scan at the local hospital only to be told that there was no heartbeat. The scan showed that I was only 8 weeks and 6 days. This monday I went to hospital to have a medically assisted miscarriage. I had to take a tablet 48 hours beforehand and then they gave me further tablets on Monday which gave me contractions so that the baby would pass. I am just devastated that this has happened and I want to try for another baby as soon as possible. Has this happened to anyone else and when did you try for another baby? I am so scared it will happen again. I have read that you should wait at least 3 months to try again so that your body can recover but I can't bear to wait any longer than I have to. It is really hard as my best friend is currently trying for a baby and although I dont begrudge her getting pregnant, if she does I know I will feel so upset! I know I am being selfish but I can't help it. xxx

Hey hunny

i am so sorry about your m/c hunny i know how arful they can be having 3 my self, it is normal to want to try for another baby straight away etc, and there is no reason you can;t just harder for them to tell how far gone you are and thet can only tell by a scan. and i feel envious of my mates who get pregnant etc i think thats normal, i have talked to councilers and feel they help. and you are not been selfish. xx

Hey

Thank you for your reply to my message and so sorry to hear that you have had three miscarriages. This was my first pregnancy so I can't imagine how you feel at having three. It really helps to talk to other people on this site who have experienced the same feelings. Good luck for the future hunny. xxx

Hey hunny

hope your ok, howa u doing?
yes the girls on here do help alot i have been on this forum about 10 months now and they are always willng to help xxx

So devastated. I feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel at the moment. Also, no one seems to want to mention whats happened to me. I guess they just don't know what to say but I find it helps to talk about it. Just hoping the bleeding stops soon and I can get back into a regular cycle so we can try again. I got pregnant really easily the first time so just hope that when we can try again I will conceive quickly. How are you? xxx

Ohhh hunny

you are feeling completly normal, but i promise you there is light at the end of the tunnel asmuch as you wont think it now there is, there is no time limit onit....and talk to your partner say you want to talk about it or a friend maybe, i found it hard talking to people i felt like they would get bored so i bottled it up and now i have seen about 4 different councillers been on anti depresants and split up from my BF and now i am just starting to get over it it is hard i had my first MC over 2 years ago and i never had chance to grieve so do what you think is best, maybe talk to a counciller that nay help?
Im ok at the mo thankyou, i find the women i am seeng now helps alot i am staying posative as much asi can and keeping busy also planning things for me and my BF to do like going on holiday that helps
xxxxx