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Can't stop crying

hi,

Im 18, and had unprotected sex at the start of aug..

I have taken 6 pregnacy test and some were positive and some negitive, i had cramps and 2 light periods, and had most normal pregnancy symptoms, my best friend kept tellin me i needed to go to the doctors.. i went on tuesday..i kinda thought i was pregnant..i think anyway.. i had blood test and everything but im not pregnant now.

After talking to the doctor i think ive had an chemical pregancy/miscarrige..i have been to the doctors 3 times this week..
i was told that there would no way to tell for sure if i miscarried or was just a bad period...

Im heartbroken and i can't stop crying i think to myself maybe i was never pregnant and i am infact crying over nothing..but at the same time i think what if a was preg and lost my wee baby i cant stop cying or thinking about it

i haven't slept and keep sitting on sites like this crying ang lookin for an answer. I don't know what to do.

Its been a stressful couple of days but is this 'normal' for me to feel this way?

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Hey there

don't beat yourself up about how you feel it's normal to feel like that, it can be a confusing time with wot you're going through so just take some time out until you can get your head round wot has happened. if you've had positive hpt and neg afterwards it was more than likely than you were pregnant and like the doctor said you had a chemical pregnancy. it's not unheard of.

so you grieve in your own way to help you get over this loss and try seeing if talking to your best friend about it will help as you can't always get over something like that on your own. I find talking a great help as it helps to you to put things in a better light so you can deal with.

I hope this helps you a little.

take care.



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