Lost my baby at 11+6wks (poss date) on wed (sorry tmi)

I just want to know why it just seems so sudden as i was getting my morning sickness up until the wed morning.

i had passed the baby on the wed afternoon so by thurs it felt empty where the baby should have been and they gave me an external and internal scan and i def passed the baby on wed afternoon.

just why after having morning sickness did i lose my baby? i had thought when you had morning sickness there was a lot less chance of mc so wot the hell went wrong?
i know there was something wrong with the baby for me to lose it but why didn't i have any more signs apart from bleeding that got heavier and some af like cramps and no other sign like my morning sickness going completely like a wk or so before?

sorry for ranting but i don't understand it all.

sherri

Hey hunny

i am so sorry you lost your lil baby hugs... it is not fair i know that, sometimes you do have symptoms still i did with my 2nd baby still after and i thought i was pregnant still and the hosp had got it wrong but unforchantatley its your body.... maybe try and talk to someone who can help i know how you feel i have lost 3 babys and it hurts like crazy and you want answers but 9 times out of ten they cant tell you xxxxxx

Hugs

Lots of hugs to you (partner) and little one

We lost our son at 28 weeks.

These things happen, not all babies are strong enough to make it though 9 months, birth and the next 18 months. They are precious and wonderful and some things are not meant to be. That does not help your pain, but the fact that little baby is loved and wanted is what is important.

After a baby dies the body does take a while to deal with everything ... not everything is instant.
(our son being an identical twin did not arrived until 6 weeks later!)

When you are ready you can try again and most of the time everything goes to plan. If you need to chat, you know where I am

Hugs xx

Thank you hun

I think i'm slowly getting there taking each day as it comes.
i'm so very sorry for your loss it must so hard for you being alot further along than me.
thank you again for your support.

love and hugs
sherri
xxxx