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Missed miscarrige 11weeks plus

Since 5 weeks into my pregnancy i have been going for scans every week. Every week you expect to see your baby grow more and more and become its own little person, unfortunatly that wasnt the case. Last week we were hit with the devastating news that there was no heart beat and bleeding around the sack, we were gutted but hung on to every little hope there was. Today one week later we went back only to have our worst fear confirmed, our baby was dead and this time there was no hope. They spent 30mins scannin me to be sure but to be honest deep down inside i knew that was it. Tomorrow i go in for a D an C and will have to find a way to finally say goodbye. Although i have alot of support around me i have never felt so alone and dont know where i am supposed to go from here ................xx

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Hey hun

i am so sorry you have had to go through this, i know how you feel and having a m/c is one of the worst thing we have to go through, i felt exacley the same as you i have had 3 mc's and just cryed everyday with my second one i cryed every single day for over a year during that time i had my 3rd m/c aswell.
You will feel alone like no one understands you because they have not been through it, if you get so down go soeak to your docter they may advise you to see someone professional, i spoke to a number of councillers and i eventually found one that helped...i was also on anti depresants they also helped but not everyone wants to go do that route.
I am always here to talk hunny and no exacley the pain you are going through, but you baby is in heaven with the other baby that are too special for this planet which they are and something i do is look into the sjy at night and look for the brightest star and think of my babys.
i promise you will be ok =) xxxx

Aww hun

I'm so so sorry for your loss, i lost mine bout similar time myself only last wk.
All you can do is take each day as it comes.
you can pm me if you need to talk more or for anything hun.

love and hugs
sherri
xxxx



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