i just wanted say be prepared either way i was sure i wanted an abortion ue to a number of reasons all which were very valid, i went for the scan at 14+4 (bubs chose that moment to kick) and got booked in to have the tablet 2 days later. i got up that morning still sure it was the right thing for me and my 2 young children. my app was for 12.30pm and at 11 i was still in my pjs i just couldnt bring myself to get ready so i logged on here in a panic as i really didnt think i could do it and needed someone to talk me out of it but no one was on so i left a message and climbed into bed snuggled up to my daughter and cried as i really knew i shouldnt be having another then i was like oh well ill just chill and think about it later and i slept for hours the best sleep in weeks. my oh was ok with my decision and the kids were over joyed im 23 weeks ok im the size of a bus have spd and have no money but we are happy being preg means ive had time to declutter all mylife and am now selling paintings its getting tricky now cuz bubs keeps hoofing the canvas as im doing it but its funny and without geafish i couldnt have felt so sure about this. ive had an abortion before and ive had misscarrages so i know what im doing. just be prepared for anything that may happen and you can change your mind at any time right up until your being put asleep. good luck hun

I go tomorrow for my abortion, I know its the right thing to do as I already have two teenagers and I feel I am to old to start again. I have to think about the two kids I already have and how much their lifes would have to change if I were to have another one now. Pluss I am on my own, this is the result of a brief relationship and I have no close family to support me.
I just feel so guilty, knowing I have to do this.

Sorry I was a bit abrupt in answering your message a few weeks back. I know this decision is very painful and difficult. It seems like you have valid reasons to feel it is right to abort this child, yet you are suffering so much just at the thought.

Can you take some inspiration from Sammy and just stay in bed tomorrow?

Take care
Siobhan

i just wanted say be prepared either way i was sure i wanted an abortion ue to a number of reasons all which were very valid, i went for the scan at 14+4 (bubs chose that moment to kick) and got booked in to have the tablet 2 days later. i got up that morning still sure it was the right thing for me and my 2 young children. my app was for 12.30pm and at 11 i was still in my pjs i just couldnt bring myself to get ready so i logged on here in a panic as i really didnt think i could do it and needed someone to talk me out of it but no one was on so i left a message and climbed into bed snuggled up to my daughter and cried as i really knew i shouldnt be having another then i was like oh well ill just chill and think about it later and i slept for hours the best sleep in weeks. my oh was ok with my decision and the kids were over joyed im 23 weeks ok im the size of a bus have spd and have no money but we are happy being preg means ive had time to declutter all mylife and am now selling paintings its getting tricky now cuz bubs keeps hoofing the canvas as im doing it but its funny and without geafish i couldnt have felt so sure about this. ive had an abortion before and ive had misscarrages so i know what im doing. just be prepared for anything that may happen and you can change your mind at any time right up until your being put asleep. good luck hun

Hi hun

If you have come as far as this, you probably already know that it is the right decision.

You will need to prepare yourself for a fairly emoitional few weeks afterwards but it does pass. I felt low for a few months but it's now 7 years ago and have known for a long time that it was the right choice to make.

Feel free to send me a private message if you wish. x