Hey hun

You really really don't sound prepared for this If you can't find eace and be settled in your own mind now, I'm worried how you may feel after.

Is someone going with you tomorrow? If you are still feeling this way tomorrow I really think you need more time to think about your decision. Please please please talk to someone who will listen and understand you. xx

My abortion is booked for saturday......and im scared that im actually going to do it!!! And what for???

A man? Maybe.
My kids i already have? I dunno. Would having a fourth child really give them any less of my attention? Would it take away their dad?
My self?? NO because i know i would love another baby sometime. This could be my last chance

I really am scared. As i dont know what to do for the best!!

just wanted know how you were and what you decided what ever your choice hope it was the right one and we are here if you wanna talk xxx

hun,
I really just want to reitterate what each woman has said so far. you don't sound sure about this, please just take time to think this out clearly because this decision is forever!!! you can't reverse it if you decide that you weren't sure or tell them to stop half way through because you want to change your mind...
you can't change the outcome of it when it's done and you sound so confused, even in your own head right now, please take time to think this through for your own sake, for the sake of your children and for above all for the sake of your unborn baby inside of you.
This won't be easy to deal with if you do decide to go through with, how much pain are you setting yourself up for if you are uncertain when you go in and have to live with that in the back of your head for the rest of your life.
Will life really be that terrible if you keep this little angel?
as has already been said, you have until the last second to change your mind-please search your heart and make sure you are 110% certain!!
Thinking of you
Kerry

I'm so sorry you sound like you're in such an impossible situation. Do you think there's any chance your husband will come round if you tell him you're not having a termination? And if not and you decide to go ahead do you think your relationship will survive if you feel that your husband pushed you into this? Because it seems that's how you feel at the moment, as though you're being pushed into something you don't want to do...

Just my thoughts, although I honestly don't know what I'd do if I were in your shoes, I just hope you come to a decision that's best for you and that you don't feel pushed in to,

Sam xxx

i told him i didnt want to go tommorow......and he said if i dont he will drag me there!! He also said he would slit my throat but im hoping he really didnt mean that

sweetie,if this doesn't show you this mans true colours then what will? He sounds dangerous-no one says that kind of thing as a joke. This is now about way more than an abortion you are being forced into. That is a real threat to do harm and if he has done it once then he will do it again and how far will he go next time? You cannont do this against your will-speak to the doctor when you arrive there, please. You don't just have your own safety to think about-you have 3 beautiful little children on the outside and another growing on the inside who need your protection...you owe them that much. Even if you go through with this, what will happen next time he gets upset of worse, one of the kids upset him and he just snaps. Take some steps to ensure all of your safety before you have to live with serious regret after something tragic happens

you really dont sound sure ... thats not good... erm just say what would happen if you decided keep it? what would happen do you think your oh would change his mind? mine did he was dead against our third now we are argueing over pushchairs lol i had the same list as you my oh my kids (who cant wait now ds 4 has a calender and checks off every day and says no no baby today then gets ready for school) and dd puts her head against bump just so itll kick her.... i didnt know what i wanted and my ohs family wanted me to abort but now they are choosing furniture that they are gonna buy for us, but dont worry you have right up until they put you asleep to decide or if your having the tablets and really cant do it pretend youve taken them and just say well they didnt work and i cant have more now so looks like we are having one people will judge but who cares? im sure your a loving mum to the chldren you have now and what ever you decide make sure its your decision follow your heart hun cuz if you follow your head you can always change your mind xxx

I had an abortion 10days ago, and i felt just like you did.Father was against me having it and i already am a single mum to 2 kids.I have found peace with the fact that i did what i thought was best for my child, i truely believe this baby will come back to me in soul one day.
But i strongly suggest you take more time to think this thru.I was 7wks and i now think i rushed it, even though i think my end decision may have been the same.
On the day i did it i tried to stay focused.The father has since said to me the other day, that he really didnt expect me to actually do it....and that was gutwretching to hear.So take time, talk it thru more with the father, make sure of his feelings, cos sometimes when we are stressed like this we can take things so differently than how they are meant.Big hugs to you.

Hey hun

You really really don't sound prepared for this If you can't find eace and be settled in your own mind now, I'm worried how you may feel after.

Is someone going with you tomorrow? If you are still feeling this way tomorrow I really think you need more time to think about your decision. Please please please talk to someone who will listen and understand you. xx