Hi All

I dotn mean to offend anyone but jsut telling it as i FEEL it. I had my abortion on Thursday. Opted for Medical one, I never thought i would think of having such a thing I have always bin life is precious etc. However so is the Life I have built ofr my 2 children and beleive me Ive had to work damn hard over the past 2 years to pick myself up and make a good life for my kids. I did not plan to be get pregnant, took all the precausions under the sun but hey I discovered I was. I know Ive had commetns about well it must be fate, so dont terminate etc. Sorry but fate is crap..least it was for me if that was indeed what it was.

Anyway its been a few days since the termination and yes it hurt physically but not as much as I imagined...I do feel releived for what I had done. Dont get me wrong if I found myself pregnant again I would not go through it again...but I knew this occasions it was for the best.

However I understand that people are'nt 100% sure and if I was that person I wud reallt think about the pros and cons. For me its workd out. I still have a supportive boyfriend we are closer than ever and I have great friends.

Please anyone in the same situation get in touch, Its not an easy decision, but I do feel that some of the posts I have recieved are a bit negative to the process and I did not look at this forum to be made to feel negative.

Take care

xxx

Hi

I had a surgical termination approx 3 weeks ago. I have a 6 month old daughter and felt I was not mentally and physically in a good place to carry on with the pregnancy. It is something I will regret for the rest of my life but as one of the nurses at the centre said it is something you have to be 150% sure about and I went through with it so I must of been. We have a right to decide what is right for our own bodies and minds.

Best wishes.