Ok before i start i had an abortion around 4 months after having my first child. I didnt really want to have an abortion but my patner didnt want another kid.
For ages i sat there thinking i want this baby but i want my patner too.
Soon i had an abortion as he didnt want it and after i did i wished i didnt.

BASICALLY what im saying is do not do it if it isnt what you want!! I did and now im regreating it i think to my self how wonderfel the baby would have been he/she would now be 1 and my son would have a little brother/sister.

I constantly think about it and now i suffer from depression and i find it hard to look in my sons eyes knowing what i have done.

SO please do not have one if less you are sure and if its what you wnat no one else.
Feel free to pm any time if you need help or advice.

Im only posting this as i have spoke to around 4 women this week from this site and my own who was going to have an abortion for thier patners sake and it made me realise everyone should know how it feels when you do have one if you dont want to.

Good luck all i do not think any less of you if you do have one and if you need any advice about them pleasefeel free to ask.