I hope so
Hi phinee26
I dont know if your relationship can survive because having an abortion alters your understanding of yourself and you will no longer be the the person you thought you were. However if you set some time aside to get to know yourself a bit better and then try to understand how that affects your relationship with you boyfriend you may find that spark again. It all depends on what you want in your life. Most commentators caution women not to abort it they want the relationship with thte man to continue, however due to all sorts on inner pressures abortion can and does take place, even in the most fortuious circumstances, and then you are left with having to rebuild a live based on new understandings of human lives. The hardest thing is to grieve your baby and let it go and forgive others for not helping you in the most useful way and to forgive those who used you to further their own agendas and forgive those who kick you while your down. The hardest to forgive is yourself, you must do this. No more movement is possible until you forgive yourself. How can you do this when you relationship depends on you not doing this????
I will think some more on this.
With blessings Casey
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