Abortion dilemma please help!!!!!
Hi, I'm not quite sure where to start here its a bit complicated and needs to be read carefully but here goes.............
At the beginning of August me and my partner briefly split and on the 8TH AUGUST, I sort of slept with someone else. When I say sort of we began intercourse but I decided I didn't want to do it so stopped. We literally had sex for no longer than 2 minutes and as far as I'm aware there was no ejaculation, however I know it is possible for the male leak and you still conceive. I then got back together with my partner 2 days later.
I wasn't sure if I'd got my previous period dates mixed up but roughly worked out I became 5 days late when I usually had a regular or slightly early cycle. I did a pregnancy test and it showed up negative. Then, on the 21ST AUGUST, I eventually came on my period. My next period was then due 18TH SEPTEMBER but I didn't come on and I discovered I was pregnant. My partner and I already have one child together already and didn't plan on having anymore. Me and my partner decided to have an abortion which is booked for next week. I didn't want anymore children and neither did my partner, but I know my partner will support me either way. I went for a consultation at the abortion centre yesterday and the dates showed I am 11 weeks 3 days but the dates I worked out from my last period would be 10 weeks 5 days. It is 12 weeks 5 days since I had intercourse with the other man but like I said I had a period 2 weeks after this. I am so confused, could there be any chance the baby's father is the other man or would it be my partners?????
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