I'm 22 and I have 2 children with my husband. I just recently found out I am pregnant. I am on the mini-pill to prevent pregnancy since I still breastfeed my youngest who just recently turned 1. I KNOW I am not ready nor want another child. I want to get an abortion but I feel I have noone to confide in because if i tell my husband he will want us to keep the baby. I simply cannot handle another child. I am already suffering mild depression and I can barely make myself get up in the morning. I want to go have the abortion without telling him... but I don't know. If I tell him there is no way I can have an abortion, but I conflicted. I just need some advice or encouragement..

Couple of things.

Why do you feel you would not be able to cope with a third baby?

Do you think you could face your husband if you went behind his back and had an abortion?

Are you not worried that this could break your trust and break up your marriage, which would be terrible for your other 2 kids?

I have really a lot of sympathy for you. I have a 7 month old and a 30 month old, and it is a lot of work, but if you calm down you will see the possibilities are open to keeping your smallest little baby.

Christmas Peace

Siobhan

i was in the same situation i was 21 (on cerazzete)had 2 kids and was breast feeding my youngest she was 9 months and i knew i didnt want another, so i went straight to the doctors didnt tell anyone and arranged it but didnt have anyone have the kids so the night before i told oh and said with or without him i was doing it and he just said ok it was my body(which hes never like he always wanted more kids but saw i was adamant) so the next day i did it i was barely 7 weeks gone coming around after surgery loads of girls were crying saying how could i but i knew my choice was right so hun just be sure its what you want. pm me if you want x