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Help im 13 and think im pregnant

 

help me im really scared, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and have been sexually active for 6months but recently i skip a period and i have been vomiting everyday,extremly tired! im so scared as i dont know what to do? and what i will do if i am, as i am to young for children but dont know if i could cope with an abortion!

please give advice


 

Help me!

i am in the same problem and you posted this a while ago so if you could contact me back that would be great thanks

 

Hello

Hi there. Hope everything is going good. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I am sexually active with him. I recommend next time, talk to a doctor or even a teacher about getting put on the pill. I'm on it and it works alot. U wait two weeks, then it kicks in and you don't have to use a condom. I do still just in case. Best of luck to you. Please try and reply. I wanna see how you're doing!

 

I think this might be the answer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5mLjKI968g

 

Wtf

You are 13 and you are sexually active? WTF and if i was sexxually active at that age i would think twice before having sex with no condom! IDIOT

 

Education

by:busterzs1

At that age i fullt understand english And could spell it alot better than u do at this age

 

Re: help im 13 and think im pregnant

Tell your mom and get an abort. It's the best thing to do at your age. It would ruin your education.

 

No

by:cjb12

if she got an abortion she wouldn't have normal pregnancies ever again and it would be nearly impossible for her to get pregnant
she would have miscarriages for the rest of her life

 

Listen up !!!

i'm a 19 years old girl and i have a little question to ask you dears ^^
so here it is : do you know what a CANDOM is ??
if you don't, next time just use it please x)
and congratulations

 

Whut?

by:busterzs1

What the hell is a Candom?

 

Hhdncsc

Look. Im 13 and I had sex with my boyfriend and I'm not pregnant but I'm always here if you need to talk. First of all you should talk to your boyfriend about it and go buy a pregnancy test, Take about 3. If they all come back positive, You need to talk to your mom. If she really loves you then she will be there for you. She may be mad at first but she'll understand. I know everyone is probably going to tell you that your only 13 and can't handle a baby and it's a lot of work and blah blah blah. Don't listen to everyone telling you to get an abortion! Remember your killing something that you created out of love and it's your's and also a human being. Just chose whatever you feel like you need to do If you do decide to go for having the baby there's always the open adoption.. It means you can still see your baby and have a relationship with him/her but it will be raised by other people. I personally think you should keep it.. But then again I don't know your situation at home. Stay strong! And good luck(:

 

Hi bbs

right its totaly up to you but ive i was your age i dont think keep it but only if i could take a pill to get rid of it but if i was past the point of taking the pill and had to have a dc id keep it you can get the pill of the g.u.m clinic or docter for free untill your 18 i do beliave , and pregger tests free from same places or pound land or savers for apound, btw i only suggest these because your sooo young , good luck whatever you do cj x

 

well it really depends, im in the exact same situation.hasn't quite hit me yet, ... it when it does, i have been tired, more hungry, strange food cravings, i think ive missed my period but im young and there not always the same time. i have been sick a few times too, i thought it was a bug, my mum would go rage, her boyfriend would be madder and my dad would be rage, its not a nice thing, i lost my virginity and now its karma, my mum has just had a wee baby so it would be too much to tell her, only my two best friends know, but we saw social workers in a car park, well they were like social workers , youth workers maybe? we talked to them for ages and they were unbelievably helpfull. me and my two friends are going to a youth pregnancy thing, on monday, its completely confidential, our parents think were going to a dance class. but before all this i need to take a test, pretend to be on the phone while buying it, like make it obviious its for someone else so you dont look like a slut, im getting mines from poundland, im getting 4packets (2in each, so 8) just to be certain. mail me if you want to speak, k ? i would like to hear your thoughts and what your doing to. x

 

My life

well you seem to be in a mess.... im 13 and im 7 and a half weeks pregnant ..... inoticed after i was 3 and a half weeks late on my period and i was being sick in the morning .... i was so scared to admit to my mistakes .... but i had to tell my mum ...... so i did in the end .... she was angry and disapointed but she stuck by me ........ i have had 2 scans now and i have made my decission to keep it .... should be due in march /....... yes i have had alot of crap from people calling names but .....sticks and stone you know .... i couldnt cope with a abortion either ..... but all i can honestly say is tell someone .... doctor friend family member someone xxxxx it will be okay .....

 

I need someone to talk to

I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant xx

 

Hold on

Hi first of all it's better to make a test to be sure that you are really pregnant https://saymommy.com/pregnancy-test/ and only that you should decide what to do, try to consult with you mom. Good luck!

 

Hmm:/

hey ii have been in the same position as you ii have been with my boyfriend for 7month but 3 weeks into our relationship ii started to have sex, i was 12 when ii met him n he just turned 15 ii ended up getting pregnant n ii was 12 well when ii conceived i am now nearly 6months pregnant ii only found out when ii was 19weeks and 3 days n had too tell my mum it was too late for an abortion so ii decided too keep the baby the baby is due in september, and found out im having a girl but hurry up n find out if you are, but if your longer than 3 and a half months you have too tell your mum, as it is too late for an abortion pill, the only way you could have a termination is by injecting a needle n killing the baby or they put you into labour but remember round about 5months pregnant the baby is fully developed n only needs too put weight on take good thinking into this situation, as you cannot blame the baby ii learned from my mistake, but obvs keeping the baby or giving it up for adoption is a really big decision, but the best thing too do is too talk to your mum ii was really scared at first but believe me your mums are always here for you n she will support you no matter what decision you choose, your life, your decisions, if youd like too talk add me to msn/hotmail : demibrennan13@hotmail.com
wish you all the best good luck..xxx

 

Same possition

Hey there, im 13 aswell and in the same position. Me and my boyfriend had sex like a week and a bit ago and i think i could be pregnant!! He said to me that if i am then thats ok and he'll stay with me and do all he cam to support me problem though...my mum is also pregnant and there is not enough space for us plus that one never mind if i am HELPP

 

We're you?

hi just wondering were you atchually preggers and if so whats happened

 

Do what feels right.

I'm not judging because I've only recently lost my virginity and I'm 15, but I'm having the same scares at the moment even though I'm on the pill, I believe that my age is an awfully young age to have a child, never mind 13. You've got so much ahead of you in the future you're what in year 8/9 you've not even done your GCSE's how can you expect a life if you've got to look after a baby at such a young age. My mother was 16 when she had me and she has stuggled through life with money and jobs (even with my nan supporting her) now she's on her feet doing awfully well but for a long time she wasn't and she was 3years older than you. I'm not saying get an abortion I'm just saying you need to think about the baby as well, so it can have a good life, look into adoption and other possibilities.

 

Every thing will be ok

First go to you local doctor, or chemist and GET a pregnancy test! Second if you are pregnant then tell your parents or a close friend. Third look after yourself, eat healthy and do a lot of exercise. Please don't get an abortion, people may say you are too young for a child but its your own opinion if you think you can handle it then try it, i am sure you family will saport you. By the way i am 13 too.

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