help me im really scared, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and have been sexually active for 6months but recently i skip a period and i have been vomiting everyday,extremly tired! im so scared as i dont know what to do? and what i will do if i am, as i am to young for children but dont know if i could cope with an abortion!

please give advice

My friend went through this at 15, that was 10 years ago. She didn't confide and found it all very difficult at he start but she knew what she wanted to do. What she decided to do doesn't matter as long as YOU are happy with YOUR decision as she was with hers.

But I would say go to your doctor or school nurse, they are very willing to give you all the help and support you need, especially if you are nervous about telling your family. They helped my friend to tell her mum and she said in the end she wished she had earlier. But don't feel you have to go through this alone!

Good luck!

Im 13 weeks

Hi i have been reading some of the replies that you have received and i felt i had to write to you. Some of the replies on here are very extreme and of course everybody is different but you must not let other people influence you on this matter. My heart goes out to you I know this is a difficult time. I have had an abortion and it was difficult but i got through it with the support of my friends and family, i have since married and have a son and i am trying for another one. I am not a heartless person and i did not make my decision lightly but i have managed to put it behind me and it was absolutely the right choice for me. Think carefully and confide in your family, you will be amazed but they will support you. much love

Im thirteen and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who is the sweetest guy I've ever met. I have fallen pregnant and I told my mum. She got me an emergency contraception tablet from my chemist but it was too late. Shes helping me through everything. When she was young she got pregnant too and got an abortion. She says that it was horrible and had heavy bleeding for a whilr after. They scratch the inside of the womb until its completely free of all traces of pregnancy.
Me and my boyfriend decided that killing wasnt a nice thing to do so Im having the baby and my uncle cant have children with his wife so theyre going to look after it.
That way I still get to see him/her.

Hi
I've just been reading your message and some of the replies you've had. I really do think this has to be your decision on whether you want to keep your baby. I know its sad that there are lots of women that are unable to have children but that cannot influence the decision that you make. Its your life and you that will have to care for your baby for life! Not an easy decision to make and you really do need to go and speak with someone. If you can't open up to your mum why don't you make an appointment to see the nurse at your doctors surgery? I'm sure she would provide you with all the information you need.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do hun!
x

Hi how are you?I know being pregnant can be scary,but you need to decide what you are going to do.Please dont have a abortion there are so many people like myself who cant have kids that want them.I am 45 and have every thihg Ineed for a baby but cant,Icant afford to pay all the money up front to get the reversal,I look all the time in boxes and on the side of the road,so please think before you do anything.Good luck

hey my names jessi and im 13 too.im not pregnant nor sexually acyive but i have super strong oppinions about pregnancy and abortions im sure being pregnant can be terrifying. but your just thinking about it form one point of view it can also be an amazing experience for you and your boyfriend...and your mom and dad... i reall think you should consider your opptions and NOT have and abortion. abortions are not the only way out even if thats what people are telling you its not not not not not. babys are wonderful and i hope you havent already made your decision and had an abortion but if you have or havent and you need anyone to talk to about it or anything you can just e mail me at dobdancer4life@hotmail.com

with you in mind'
jessi
"have you smiled today?"

Hi stac...
It is too early to panic. Just go to your GP and ask for a pregnancy blood test. I would not recommend to do home pregnancy test, because sometimes they may be a bit confusing. You need to find out as soon as possible and then you can think what to do or change next.
Yes you may be a bit too joung to for pregnancy, but you would not be first nor last to fall pregnant at 13.
There is many couples that can not have children. They would give you world for your baby, and would give a great future to the little one. (that's just another option...)
Have you told anybody? Have you got somebody older beside you that you can talk to?
Best of luck,

hiya dont worry got & get a pregnancy test and tell ur parents the sooner the better...i am 28 and i have 4 children

when i first got pregnant i was 13 and i didnt tell my parents until i was 24wks and they went ccrazy i was lucky at the time i wasquite chubby so they didnt really notice but they were furious when they did know

but then when i got bigger at around 30wks my mum was dead chuffed and excited but it was a big mistake not to tell them earlier

now many years later im happily married with a different man and have 4 lovely children unfortunately however my 2 oldest are wif different dadds as i was a teen when i hadtem