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Don't worry sweety!!
Don't worry I got pregnant at 14! I have been sexually active scince I was 12! I'm now 18 and pregnant with my third child! Here's my msn if anyone wants to talk evangalinelily@hotmail.co.uk xxxxx
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Dontworry
Hey, My name is Shannon, i have just turned 14 last mounth, and i am 5mounths pregnant! i was 13 when i turned pregnant, and was in the same situation as you, realy scared! i went to the doctors, and at first wanted everything to be confidential, not wanting my mum to find out! when i decided i wanted to keep my baby, i then told my Parents! im here if you want to ask any questions, ill try my hardest to answer! Best of luck!
Shannon &+ Bump  x
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Heeey.
hello, do you have msn cause i would like to talk  i'm in the same postion!
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Oh god hun
you are so young....i am not one to judge i became sexually active at 14 but 13...
ok first thing is first, you need to take a pregnancy test asap, you sound pregnant and i will be very surprised if your not.
then depending on the result, if it's positive you MUST tell your mum and she will give you the help you need even if she is angry at first.
in future, always use condoms.
good luck!
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Get to a doctor
the first thing that you need to do is see a doctor. my sister was 16 when she got pregnant but she ignored it until she was 20 weeks along and it ended up being twins and one have mental birth defects because of lack of proper prenatal care. also don't be so focused on abortion. some people can do it and it's nothing but personally i could never forgive myself if i did that. really you take that chance when you have sex and all of us know what could happen, it's not that babies fault. there are plenty of people in the world who want a baby who can't have one. you could even do an open adoption where you could still be a part of the babies life. just think it over very carefully. it's your life and no one can tell you what to do but now is time for you to be an adult and make the right choice for you and this little baby that didn't do anything wrong, or as my mom says put on your big girl panties.
sorry that it's so to the point but that is the truth and there's no reason to sugar coat it because it still means the same thing.
ps- congrats!! it really is a miracle!!!
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Scared, confused and pregnent
Hi im a midwife living in the midlands, I have 3 children, the first i had when i was 16, if you are feeling scared that you can not tell anyone your pregnent, mail me i can help your not alone.
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Please help me 0ut.
im not even sure if your qunna qet this but im prayinq that yu do . latly my nipples been real sore im talkinq the kinda sore when my man brushed aqanist me i thouqht i was qunna rip his head off. it hurt that bad. i been qettinq pain in my lower left belly, anytime it has pressure layed on it, i thouqht it was cause i had to pee but it wasnt nothinq cominq out. after intercorse on sunday afternoon, i went home & realized i had blood stains, not really deep red like period blood but pinkish weird lookinq blood that i havent seen since i lost my virginity . note that im only 15yrs old- im tryinq to work on my future, but me & my man been talkinq latly about a baby i personally think its all a jinks; thats what i wanna believe atleast. i dont have a reason to worry really , like we always have used protection, we only made love 4 times, & each time he cummed it was always in the condom i mean i seen it for myself when he took it off. im 2 days late for my period, & yesterday on the first i was qettinq cramps like i thouqht i was qunna qet my period, but disappointly it never came. i dont suspect of nothinq but me stressinq myself out. but who knows we could of had a oppsiee.. you know ?
Please hit up my email asap requardless.. its xx215babyxx@aim.com
i need mad adviice & quick before i have a nervous breakdown !
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Hi there!! im so scared please talk to me 
Hi I read you're comment that you're pregnant? My period is late and Im so scared.. My name is Kelita and Im from Singapore..
Im currently 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months.. We've been sexually active for 3 0r 4 months but recently we didn't use a condom.. But still... he did not cum in me... he took out before he came you know? So I thought that wouldn't be so risky... But now i'm late and Im so scared.. I would never want to abort my baby.
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Im so sorry!
How far along are you? Im 4 months. It's sooo scary. I've been sexually active since I was 12; please don't judge me wrongly! When I first found out I cried for days, my mom didn't know what was wrong with me. My name's Eliza by the way. Email me at maryanne.5@hotmail,co.uk now
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13 and possible pregnancy
Hi, first things first, do a test, know for sure, as i too have had the same scares at your age, im 32 now! some time ago but im was a false alarm, once you have found out for sure by doing a test, by doing this you know for sure and if it does turn out to be positive then you need to find the support you need, whether thats mum, dad, doctor, friend, whoever it may be that you feel you can trust, yes you are young but having said that you be surprised how you would cope with the right support. Whatever choice you make if it is the case then it will be the right one for you, good luck
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Professional help is there for you
My friend went through this at 15, that was 10 years ago. She didn't confide and found it all very difficult at he start but she knew what she wanted to do. What she decided to do doesn't matter as long as YOU are happy with YOUR decision as she was with hers.
But I would say go to your doctor or school nurse, they are very willing to give you all the help and support you need, especially if you are nervous about telling your family. They helped my friend to tell her mum and she said in the end she wished she had earlier. But don't feel you have to go through this alone!
Good luck!
Im 13 weeks
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Hi i have been reading some of the replies that you have received and i felt i had to write to you. Some of the replies on here are very extreme and of course everybody is different but you must not let other people influence you on this matter. My heart goes out to you I know this is a difficult time. I have had an abortion and it was difficult but i got through it with the support of my friends and family, i have since married and have a son and i am trying for another one. I am not a heartless person and i did not make my decision lightly but i have managed to put it behind me and it was absolutely the right choice for me. Think carefully and confide in your family, you will be amazed but they will support you. much love
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I know how you feel
Im thirteen and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who is the sweetest guy I've ever met. I have fallen pregnant and I told my mum. She got me an emergency contraception tablet from my chemist but it was too late. Shes helping me through everything. When she was young she got pregnant too and got an abortion. She says that it was horrible and had heavy bleeding for a whilr after. They scratch the inside of the womb until its completely free of all traces of pregnancy.
Me and my boyfriend decided that killing wasnt a nice thing to do so Im having the baby and my uncle cant have children with his wife so theyre going to look after it.
That way I still get to see him/her.
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Hi
Hi
I've just been reading your message and some of the replies you've had. I really do think this has to be your decision on whether you want to keep your baby. I know its sad that there are lots of women that are unable to have children but that cannot influence the decision that you make. Its your life and you that will have to care for your baby for life! Not an easy decision to make and you really do need to go and speak with someone. If you can't open up to your mum why don't you make an appointment to see the nurse at your doctors surgery? I'm sure she would provide you with all the information you need.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do hun!
x
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Wanting mona1
Hi how are you?I know being pregnant can be scary,but you need to decide what you are going to do.Please dont have a abortion there are so many people like myself who cant have kids that want them.I am 45 and have every thihg Ineed for a baby but cant,Icant afford to pay all the money up front to get the reversal,I look all the time in boxes and on the side of the road,so please think before you do anything.Good luck
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Hey there
hey my names jessi and im 13 too.im not pregnant nor sexually acyive but i have super strong oppinions about pregnancy and abortions im sure being pregnant can be terrifying. but your just thinking about it form one point of view it can also be an amazing experience for you and your boyfriend...and your mom and dad... i reall think you should consider your opptions and NOT have and abortion. abortions are not the only way out even if thats what people are telling you its not not not not not. babys are wonderful and i hope you havent already made your decision and had an abortion but if you have or havent and you need anyone to talk to about it or anything you can just e mail me at dobdancer4life@hotmail.com
with you in mind'
jessi
"have you smiled today?"
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Hello...
Hi stac...
It is too early to panic. Just go to your GP and ask for a pregnancy blood test. I would not recommend to do home pregnancy test, because sometimes they may be a bit confusing. You need to find out as soon as possible and then you can think what to do or change next.
Yes you may be a bit too joung to for pregnancy, but you would not be first nor last to fall pregnant at 13.
There is many couples that can not have children. They would give you world for your baby, and would give a great future to the little one. (that's just another option...)
Have you told anybody? Have you got somebody older beside you that you can talk to?
Best of luck,
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Hey
hiya dont worry got & get a pregnancy test and tell ur parents the sooner the better...i am 28 and i have 4 children
when i first got pregnant i was 13 and i didnt tell my parents until i was 24wks and they went ccrazy i was lucky at the time i wasquite chubby so they didnt really notice but they were furious when they did know
but then when i got bigger at around 30wks my mum was dead chuffed and excited but it was a big mistake not to tell them earlier
now many years later im happily married with a different man and have 4 lovely children unfortunately however my 2 oldest are wif different dadds as i was a teen when i hadtem
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13 and trapped
i was sexually active at the age of 11. i used condoms with my boyriend donald  . i am now 13 and i am pregnant with my first one. im stilll with my boy friend having regular sex and it feels nice. Its hurts me in the morning less than night. I am 7 months with a massive bump. and my mom notcied when i was 2 months into pregnancy. she chucked her phone at me when i walked in the door and said whats this text about. i explained i was pregnant... and she went crazy... donald lives with me and my mom and yonger sister taylor and older brother harrison. we are now getting ready for 2 twin girls rachelle and charlotte. get advice and tell your mum i ur pregnant.. trust me it helps
Claire xx
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