Hi, I'm seventeen and having quadruplets. My parents are being very supportive and me and my bf are .............

I am really sorry to hear that. I wouldnt stay with that guy you need someone who can support you and not thearting you. I was 15 when i got a abortion it was so hard and felt like someone was tearing my insides out. Anyway i am with the same guy we live together and have been together for about 3 yrs and i just found out i am 18 and a few weeks pregnant, i am going thew with it but i am so scared....

i am eighteen, and just recently found out i am two months and 1 week pregnant. I have been with my partner just over a year, and we live together. He just recently bought himself a one bedroom flat. I told him i was pregnent after passing three tests. And the first thing he said was dont worry we`ll get rid of it. I was very upset and told him i cant have an abortion. My mother and father are very supportive and will always have a place for me and my baby if i keep it. My partner however is not supportive, and gave me the choice that if i keep it him and i are through. And ill obviously have to move out. But he said if i do decide to keep it he will take me to court and win custordy over my baby and take it off me! as he couldnt bare to think of our baby being brought up by me, my mother and father. Two years ago i took a paracetomol over dose as i was incredibly depressed after i had been dumped suddenly by another boyfriens. And my partner plans to use that as evidence that i am not suitable to bring up a baby. But i have realised how immature i was for taking an over dose, and trying to end my life over something so stupid, but we all do mistakes when were young. But now all i want is for my unborn baby to be born, and my partner to realise how unfair he is being on me. He is violent in arguments, although he has never really hurt me, the most i have ever come out with is a small cut lip, and a sore arm. but never serious bruising. But i know he would never harm my baby. I love him so much and i couldnt bear to lose him. But i feel i would completely regret having an abortion. My abortion is tomorrow at 11am, and i am terrified about havong it done, or if i back out i am terrified what my partner will do. I need help and if any one has been through similar what did they do?

Desperate for help. x

babies are wonderful and you partner has no right to force you to have an abortion if you do not want one. You also cant be one hundred percent sure he would not harm your baby. If he can hurt you he can hurt a defensless babe. Your parents seem real suportive, is there a possiblity of you staying with them? If so that sounds like a great solution. And if you are living with them it will also help your custody case if he took you to court. hope this helps

hey in 15 yrs old im 16 this yr and im pregnat with triplets when i saw ur ple i though well nere enought haveing the same amount add my msn addy chelsea_maltby@hotmail.com

My name is Stormy, and im having a little baby girl.Im seventeen years old and i know its hard for you.I have a boyfriend that is 20years old and we try to make it day by day as it comes.dont worry youll do fine and I wish you the best of luck with your babies.The lord will bless and help you alng the way when things get hard.keep that in mind and you will do just fine.

hi im 18 years old and 25 weeks pregnant with my first child i split up with the father 4 months ago and im scared that im not going to cope as a single mum, my family are helping as much as they can but i keep gettin down and thinking im going to be a bad mum and will ruin my childs life. The father does not seem interested even though he says he is and i am scared he will get bored and push our child away, i grew up without my dad around and im scared that my child will not have his/her father around either. i need someone to tlk to......im scared

HIYA GIRL, MY NAME IS MICHELLE AND I AM 18YRS OLD TOO. AND WILL BE TURNNING 19 ON THE 18TH MAY THIS YR.
I AM 36WEEKS PREGNANT WITH FIRST BABY, DUE ON THE 17TH AND HAVING A BABY GIRL. I AM NOT WITH MA BABY'S DAD TOO, SO AM GOING TO BE A SINGLE MUMMY. I AM SO SCARED TOO, BUT SOMEHOW I HVE GOT A FEELING THAT I'LL MAKE IT AND SO WILL U.

MY FAMILY HVE BEEN REALLY SUPPORTIVE. NOW I AM SO EXCITED I'VE GOT BOUT 4WEEKS LEFT. BUT I AM SO SCARED BOUT THE BIRTH. I HVENT DECIDED ON THE PAIN RELIEF YET, BUT WILL GET STARTED ON MY BIRTH PLAN. I CANT WAIT 2 C MA LITTLE BABY GIRL.I HAVE BEEN IN AND OUT OUT OF HOSPITAL COZ OF BABY, JUST HAVING SOME TIGHTENINGS,SO I HVE ALREADY PACKED MA BAGS AND STUFF.

NOW I AM JUST COUNTING THE DAYS.

ANYWAYS I HOPE YOU'LL REPLY SOON.I WOULD LIKE TO CHAT TO U SOMETIME.

I LIVE IN BECKENHAM, KENT IN LONDON. I HOPE U DONT LIVE TO FAR AWAY SO THAT MAYBE SOMEDAY WE COULD HANG OUT AND STUFF WHAT DO U THINK?

Hi,I'm 20 and I'm having my second child.Being scared is normal.I was 14 when I had my 1st child. I raised my 1st child on my own but you have support from your family and your bf so try not to worry to much just know that you have people who love you very much so take a deep breath and get ready being a young mom is'nt as bad as people make it seem.Yes you may be a little scared but believe it or not every pregnant women has something about their pregnancy that scares them.I'm thirty weeks too and believe me just because I'm holding 1 baby and your holding 4 I completely understand how you feel about looking sexy but feeling like a whale.I'm always here to talk whenever you need me......


~Cherelle

hey can u add my addy chelsea_maltby@hotmail.com in 15 and haveing triplets im shiting myself plz ;(

It may seem crazy at first, and frustrating. Many young girls are scared even I am and im not due untill july 07 07. It's been hard for me and it's not easy accepting but many girls are happy and if your husband is supporting in what is going on in your lives then everything will be ok. Don't worry be happy and live your life with your beautiful girls and wonderful husband you have wish you the very best.
Amanda mattern
Calgary Alberta.

ii Want a Baby Soo Bad Im In Love With Babys ii Nearlly gt Pregant But i wasnt! iild Love to Be pregant Now Im Nearlly 14 in November! Im Scared iif I did Get Pregant My Mum Would Make me have an borsion Because shes told me that And My Dad would Go Mad! && My Brother Who's 18 Is Soo Over Pertected With Me And Hes Poprual Round My Ends i Just Really Want a Baby. Please SOme One Help Me! Kathryn .x

hello my name is jade and i am 13 years old. i have allways loved kids and allways wanted some of my own. in the last year i have thought about it even more. i often cry myself to sleep at night just wishing i could have a child. i have even started to save my money up and buy unisex baby clothes. i know children arnet all fun, i have a little brother who is five so i know how hard it is but something about it really makes me want to have a child even more. i am so down and need somone to talk to. can anybody help?????


my email address is > dance_like_your_alone@hotmail. co.uk

Heya Kathryn, i think your crazy!! :P
I know you want a baby, and i expect everybody tells you that they are not barbie dolls, and beileve me they aint.
Your'e so young and im sure you dont want to throw your life away. You should wait until you are in a relationship with somebody you love, and who loves you back, even if then you are only sixteen then, you would be alot more mature and ready for the responsibility.
Natasha x.x.x

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My names angela and im 17 years old my daughters name is Samara and she is 2 her dad is in jail im single and raising my baby all by my lonesome it is really hard I was 14 when I got pregnant and 1 1/2 months after my 15th birthday my baby girl was born she is the most precious thing in my life right now my life sucks I have noone and im all by my self dont let it get you down though life will get better

hi ya i would love to talk to ya i feel the same as you do i am only having one but it is really scary as you dont no what to expect plz write bk x

I feel exactly as you do im due in august which seems such a long way away but it isnt. I feel so scared and sometimes so frustrated at not having anyone to talk to, if you want a chat please reply x x x

Hi my name is Crystal and i'm only 17 going on 18 next wednesday. But I'm scared because I haven't told my parents.

because a girl at my school fell pregnant at 14 and she is now having to look after her two year old son now aged 17 so it may be hard a first but youll be fine once the kid get a little older trust me. my big sister has two kid a boy age 7 and a girl age one she finds it hard but she handles it fine.

I'M 15 i don't even know the dad it was just one night i have a bf who said he would stay with me no matter what and that he would help don't worry you'll do just fine you have a bf that loves you