Hi, I'm seventeen and having quadruplets. My parents are being very supportive and me and my bf are .............

hey i was in the same place but i had only one at least u have people to help u i have nobody to help me u will be ok just think forward to holding ur lovely babies in ur arms they will love u before anyone

I dont have really to many people to help me. Most the people that said they would help me I doubt well cause there all teens their self. So yea. I know what your going through. Dont worry something good will happen everything happend for a reson..

hi madelyn,im 16 and 4months pregnant, with only 1 so i cant say i know how your feeling but if u ever need to talk email me on msn its sexy_laura_0@hotmail.co.uk

xxlauraxx

Well first and for most, you shouldnt be scared, but then again i dont have kids im n da position where i wanna have a baby really bad, but my family and friends say wait im to young im almost 19, and me and my bf been together 3 years now and im scared dat i might be what was your first sign of pregnancy.

Hi
My name is Amber.
I am 1 Month pregnant.
I am only 15 years old.
I am so confused on how I should handle things.
I am so happy you and your boyfriend have been together that long.
I have only been with my boyfriend for 1 month and I am 1 month pregnant.
I am scared and my mom has no idea.
Just thank god you && your boyfriend have been through this long and still together cause it looks like I am going to be a 15 year old single mom.

Amber

hi Amber
My name is Kelsey, i had my son Landon James a little over a year ago when i was 14 years old. I am a single mom, and its actually not to bad. The image media gives to us young girls is completely negative, so thats what we instantly think. A GREAT SONG TO LISTEN TO IS "THERE GOES MY LIFE" BY KENNY CHESNEY, it talks about how he regretted it at first, but then became the greates thing ever, which is exactly how i feel, i instantly wanted to turn to abortion, trust me THATS NOT THE ANSWER.. and adoption, personally i just couldn't do because i can't spend my hole life wondering where their at.. my son Landon is truly my life, when i first had him and his little hand wrapped around my finger, my heart instantly melted, and i absolutely can't imagine my life any other way.. you need to tell your parents, soon. THEY ARE YOUR BIGGEST SUPPORT SYSTEM!! if you haven't told your boyfriend yet, thats also important! let me know how things are going

hi Amber
My name is ShawwnaLai
i am 4 mo pregnant and
i am 18. my man isn't ready
to be a dad so i help
other teens in my situation
so i understan how you feel
and wish to help you in any way
feel free to e mail me at
mortal_native08@hotmail.com
ShawwnaLai

its great that everyone is so supportive, i was 17 when i had my first child, i am now 20 and pregnant again, I am also single.
You are bound to be feeling scared, its a new expierence but when it happens it will be something you will never forget the best expirence of your lifetime. DOnt expect it to be easy because it wont but at the same time, its not all bad, having a child or quads in your case is a life changing expierence for the better.
Good luck with it all, and just remember the support around you that you have.

Hi, I have just found out my 17yr old daughter is pregnant. I know she is really scared, and so I was hoping you could tell me what helped you when you found out, and do you have any advice for me on what to say to her. We are close, and she wasn't scared to tell me, just worried that I would be upset. I don't want her worrying about me, and to concentrate on keeping well. Thanks

hey there,
im 21 and 27 wks pregnant,telling my parents was prob the HARDEST thing ive ever had 2 do, I was living with my 26 yr old partner, we had been talkin about marriage and a family but it was yrs away plans, until he decided that crystle meth was more satisfying then me,i didnt find out i was preggers until almost 12wks along we had split up a wk b4, nd still 2 this day im not sure if i woulda carried this through had i found out earlier probz something ill question all my life!
all i can say is plz plz plz be there 4ur little girl bcoz wat ur goin through is NOTHING compared 2 how shes feeling. She's goin through HELL believe me and she's goin 2 need u 24/7 all i can mainly reccommend is u reassure her EVERY SINGLE DAY how much u love her and how much she means to you bcoz those 2 things will help her through each and everyday,doin it on her own is HUGE believe me im doin it too, my X PARTNER hasa 3yr old 2a previous relationship and he has everythin 2 do with his little girl- the ex doesnt no hes back on the drugs,and she doesnt no about me and my baby on the way her daughters half brother-but thats prob somethin ill neva get 2 mixed up in, ive had 2 move back 600kms from where i was livn 2 b with my parents and obtain there support which im forvever greatful words cant explain how much them bein here 4 me has helped,i hope ur daughter gets throgh it all ok and i hope u as a mother already understands bcoz uve been there and done that,i no you will be fine and yes this is a very tough time emotionally but what doesnt break u only makes u stronger!! good luck!! email me if u ever wanna talk or ur daughter does storm_filled_eyes@hotmail.com

i know you wrote in a while ago, but i just signed up... im 19 and have an 8 month old, but one of my best friends found out she was pregnant at 16, she now has a nearly two year old.
we were talking the other day about the best advice we got, and both agreed that it was the people who told us that to only think about ourselves, that no matter what we decided they would support us, 100% and not judge our decison, because in the end it is our baby and our life to have to live with a child (forever) we also talked to people with no opinion or particular view toward abortion/adoption etc that also helped to weigh up all options in our life!
so good luck, but support and love is number one! and no judging or definite ideas about what you think!!!
good luck

im 14 and ive got a 1 year old baby boy called paris

just to let you al know ur al doin gr8 jobs lol

my msn is kayliandleo4eva@hotmail.co.uk so feel free to add me

luv kayli and paris xxx

Hi Madelyn. My name is Danielle and I am 17 years old and me and my boyfriend are getting married and I wanna have a baby now, I dont know if I am makeing the right choice but he says he loves me and that he'll be their for us. Please right back.

Im 19 years old and 3 months pregnant at first i was really nervous at the prospect of being a young mum but now ive learnt to cope with it. You need to really live your life first im not patronising you but your 17 getting married im guessing your moving in together if you havent already, just enjoy eachothers company for a while and see how things go. My mates phone me up to go clubbing or for a quiet drink but i cant cos i cant drink you'll miss out on alot of things are you prepared to dedicate your entire life to another person?
think carefully about your decision

hi im 14 and i just had my baby 3 weeks ago.i am mature for my ag.just to say any other teens out there wishyou all the best.

hi im 15 this year and im pregnant again i already have a 8 month old baby called lou-lou im still with her father and this baby i his too we live together he is 18 yers old he is goin to b 19 in a few days and im 2 months pregnant on his brthday lol 27 of february is his birthday. i am so proud to be a mum and i love my daughter and i love my life to peices and wouldnt swap it for the world and more. i get lots of support of family and frinds and from complete strangers i dont no just walk up to me and say congratsulations. well to allthe tenn mums and teen- mum to be's i ope you have a wonderfull delivery and a wonderfull time with your child or new child.

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hia im laura im 16 im 17 on 13th feb im 35 weeks pregnant with a lil boy and calling him taylor jay im engaged to leigh hes amazing and so supportive i love him so much! wev been together for nearly 2years now and wer still madely in love. im not realy too worried about the birth because im planning to have my mum and leigh at the birth, im just so excited and cant wait to hold my baby boy.there's nothing to be worried or scared about.im lucky iv got leigh alot of people dont have they babies farther with them and i realy do feel for them but i dont know what its like but they are strong too and are good parents just like any other person.

hey
im 15 almost 16 and in march 2007 im due to have my first baby should be a girl but i wont be disappointed if its a boy!im so excited! but im also scared i dont really know any other mums yet so i'd realli like to talk to someone if there up for a chat lol my email is beach_barbie0069@hotmail.com

Hi Danielle, my name is Steffani. I am also 17, engaged and I am 5 weeks pregnant with my first child. Its not all its cracked up to be. For me it was very unplanned but I am going through with everything. I will tell you, from having thrown up every morning, and afternoon and every night for the past 2 weeks....its tough. I work 40 hours a week (I graduated this past july), I go to school at night for further certifications with my ambulance associations. My boyfriend and I have been engaged for 5 months and we've been together for what seems like forever....but now that he knows im pregnant with HIS baby....he is digging his heels into the ground and he is not very willing to compromise with bills and money is becoming an issue that may rip us apart. A baby is not something you need right now. I'm not trying to put a damper on your hopes but sweety....please please wait until your a little older. You may want it, but once you take that test and 2 little blue lines show up....your gunna be like "oh hell what did I do". When the little one comes that means no more going out at night, no time for full time school, money issues, people judging you.....its going to be so so hard. just please....consider what I've been through and think long and hard about it. I've got a long road ahead of me and my life has been put on hold. I have every hope of becoming a paramedic and now thats going to be held up by at least 2 years. Whatever your dream job/career is.....get there first, then have all the babies you want. You dont know if this relationship will last. your 17....I'm 17....as much as we think we know what we want out of life and out of a man...they change and we change....if your meant to be together, then keep dating and marriage will come later. I wish you so much luck Danielle. Feel free to write back.
~Steffani~