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Please help im 17 and i think im pregnant...

My period is late and Im so scared.. My name is Kelita and Im from Singapore..


Im currently 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months..
He waas my best friend before that..

We've been sexually active for 3 0r 4 months but recently we didn't use a condom.. But still... he did not cum in me... he took out before he came you know? So I thought that wouldn't be so risky... But now i'm late and Im so scared.. I would never want to abort my baby.

He says he loves me very much and if Im really pregnant he would be worried but happy and that he would take care of me to his best abilities..
I trust him and I would be really happy too but Im so afraid that he would one day regret..
Also... my parents are very difficult people...


I really don't know what to do...

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Thank god..

My boyfriend and I wanted to confirm if I still didn't get my period by the end of August..
Just when I was about to give in to the fact that Im having a baby my period came.. At first we wasn't sure if it was spotting or period.. The next day confirmed that my period came...
We were both so relieved...

Now we're more careful when we have casual sex..
Always use condom!!!!!

Im just really glad to know that he still loves me even when I could have been pregnant..


Thanks you dears so so much for all the tips and concern..


Would love to know you sweet people!!


Here's my blog!!

juskel.blogspot.com

Aww hun

i'm so glad for you, and that your boyfriend is so supportive of you.
you take care now.
love
sherri

How did it go?

how did it go hun did you find out if you were pregnant or not

Aww hun

I can understand with you being so young and worried about this. Whenever you don't use a condom there is always a risk that you could get pregnant.
Have you actually had a home pregnancy test done yet that would tell you instantly whether you are or not? If you are and your boyfriend is willing to stand by you, you both should tell your parents together and talk things through, but if you're not and you still don't get your period please go to the doctors they should help you.

tc and I hope everything turns out alright for you.




Been there

hi, just wanted to say that I was barely 18yrs when pregnant. It is scarey. I suggest to speak the weaker parent first with your boyfriend. That way, that parent can soften the reaction when you tell the other one. They will be shocked, but after babies are born and after a few months during the pregnancy they are ok. Trust me. Get a test done. I tried double doses of the morning after pill but it did not work, and my child has very bad skin and I believe that may have something to do with it. The best thing about being young when pregnant is : quickest recovery!!! Easy birth (for me anyway) If your parents don't support you, even if. I suggest that you go to a GOOD (not fake) Christian church with down to earth and helpful people there. Support makes the world of diff and you need love and acceptance during this time especially. Best of luck. Try not to worry. You're beautiful, and I'm sure if you are having a baby, he/she will be lovely too



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