please help. ive been so stupid am i pregnant by a stranger????

Hello

Im 18, and so so scared.
I went to on holiday to tunisia last week and met a boy, he was 19 and we clicked straight away, after having spent the first 4 days of my holiday with him on the 5th night we had sex, unprotected. And again for the next 6 nights. We used protection 2 out of the 6 nights and now i am so scared that im pregnant

I cannot stop weeing, and have a weird feeling down below!! (gross sorry!)
havent really experiecned anything else apart from stomach cramps every now and then.

I was due on my period about a week ago and didnt come on before i had sex with him.

Cani be pregnant?? When will i know? am i being silly?
im soo scared.
and am suppose to be having breast enlargement surgery in 6 weeks!!

I am still in contact with the boy but am now back in england, i really do like him but understand these kind of things never work out.

Please help somebody!
xxxxxx

Re. please help

Hello my dear,

I know you are scared but you must do a pregnancy test as soon as possible. It may be negative and you can stop worrying, and if it is positive it is best to find out as soon as you can so you think about what you want to do. It's no good just to do nothing as carry on getting more and more worked up. Pregnancy tests can be picked up from all types of places these days, supermarkets, Boots, any chemists, or you could go to your docs or any family planning or GUM clinc where they'll do it free for you and you'll get help and support there too. They will also be able to check you out for STI's and support you through that too, but I'd suggest one step at a time and sort out the pregnancy question firstly.

Do you have someone you could talk to? A trustworthy friend, sister, your mum or an aunty or someone? I think you could do with some help and a supporting hand at the moment. Please don't panic all alone. I know its little consolation but this happens to thousands of women and girls everyday and many women will have been in your shoes at one time or another.

Sending you lots of love and support. I hope it all works out for you.

Take care,
XXXXXXX

Hey there

the only way to find out is to do a home pregnancy test but wot i would also advise is to get checked out for any other STI too as which you can get it done at these clinics they have sorry not sure wot they are called if you don't want to go to your doctors.

You know yourself wot you've done so i won't lecture you!

But please get checked out asap because if you are pregnant you won't be able to have the breast enlargement and you will have to talk to your parents as well as that boy.