Just introducing myself

hi everyone im new to this site and nedd some help/advice please

background:
always was big as a child(not overweight just never been skinny) and before i kew it i was a size 16(3 years ago) i decided to cut out all of the junk food from my diet and i was soon a size 12. my will power got the better of me though and i am now a sie 14 and realy want 2 go back down 2 that size 12 i was before. i know what your thinking....why dont you just stop eating junk food again?? but ive tried and for some reason it didnt work the second time arround!! i went to the gym tried lots of different diets but nothing seems 2 be working.

i thought that after christmas would be as good a time as any to start and could come on here for support to know that when im having a 'cant be arsed day' im not the only one wanting to stay in my pj's all day and eat ice cream lol

do any of you reccomend a good diet that dosent mean starving your self?? and not 2 much exercise as im having a boob job at the end of this month and wont be able 2 push myself in the gym for about 3months after untill im properly heald.

thanks

jamie

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