hello, im currently having unprotected sex because i hate taking tablets they make me sick, and my aunt was telling me that the injection they give you that lasts for 3months puts weight on you and i cant e having that lol. then theres the bar HATE needles and stuff plus the bars supposed to put weight on you to. the condom, well.... lol my boyfriend cant use them as his **** doesnt stay hard goes all floppy and all and thats a bit ... so at the min its a bit of a joke as when we have sex when he's ready to come he pulls his **** out and blows on to a sock and then i do the same but thats also a bit crap as when your done the last couple a seconds when you come are great well for me and he says it is for him as well and would far rather just leave it in but i got pregnant (with him) before and we unfortunity had a miscarriage and i really couldnt go through that hole pregnancy thing again so a need to get one of these soted a.s.a.p like.. i would preferably like to have that injection (even though i hate needles, do you no if it hurts that bad) the one that lasts for 3 months! but then i dont want to put on weight and all as av said aove so its a bit of a nightmare and could really do with some advise on the things iv stated in this message plz..

thanks for taking the time to read this!!

The combined pill really aint that bad its a tiny tiny pill u dnt even feel it go down your throat!!! however the injection aint that bad either as ive had that too but only if you dont plan to get pregnant any time soon as it can take 6mnths to a year to wear off once you stop taking it! id say go for the injection if u want more long term and the plus side is u dnt have to remember the pill and it can stop ur periods so ud b period free!! gud luck to u hope u make the rite choice!

well if you dont like needles maybe you should try the nueva ring not sure if i spelled that right it is suppose to be 99.9% affective and all you do is put it arounf your cervix im sure they will show the the correct way, then you leave it in for three weeks and take it out the week your on your period.

i was on the injection 4 4 years,yes its every 3 months so its good in that way plus i never had one period!it isnt the pill that makes u fat i personally think its self control regular exersize and ul be fine!! plus it doesnt hurt that much its in ur bum cheek so plenty of meat to absorb the pain lol! u can never get full on that thing u can eat a 3 course meal and half an hour do the same so as long as u dont pig out u shud be ok, gotta say u gota do sumthing if u did get pregnant by this lad last time u are both probably fertile! plus pulling out doesnt stop u getting pregnant beleive me ever heard of pre-cum oh it exists!! the pill is reallt tiny i struggle taking pills and have to break them in half but if uve ever seen 'the pill' its minute!

Oh boy, no the needele doesnt hurt, had it long time ago and my daughter is on it at the moment but she has to come of it in the next few years as they say it causes bone density. or something.

I think the world is over populated as it is at the moment, what would you rather do be up the duff with a screaming kid at your side or have your sanity for a few years with out the pain of labour etc and your sanity.

it doesnt hurt and you dont even have to look at the needle.

coitus interuptus is no safe method either as the sperm can still be in some of the fluid before he actually comes.you still have a chance of getting pregnant, yes you put on some weight, but not that much i guess it depends on how your body is really.
the weight is normally just fluid retention any way.

hope this helps, dont think you want to be a mommy 24 plus do you , its not much fun but plenty stress and sleepless nights, i know i have had 7 children and one etopic pregnancy.

Hi,i had the injection before i had my children(5yrs ago) & i thought it was a pretty good method. The first jab made my nxt couple of periods abit unpredictable but then they stopped altogether(which is quite normal).Personally i was quite happy about that.I did put on afew pounds but id say this was mostly down 2 lifestyle at the time.If ur not plannin on getting pregnant 4 awhile i would recommend it,however if ur only puttin babies off 4 a little bit u might not want this as it took me a year 2 concieve afterwards & think this is quite commen.oh yeah,it doesnt really hurt,no more than any other jab!

that 3 month shot is depo provera and i don't recomend going on it at all. i was on it for two years and it was the worst thing i ever did for birth control. i didn't as the right questions before i took it and now i am paying the concequenses. i have been off the shot for a year now and have just had my first period which lasted for 2.5 weeks and haven't stopped spotting yet. it will make you gain weight depending on the person. it doesn't always. i only gained about 10 pounds while i was on it. it has some really harsh side affects both when you are on it and with it comming out of your system. and if it affects you really bad when you get your first shot, there is nothing you can do about it untill you body clears it out. you are stuck with the side affects. if you decide to take the shot, make sure you do your research on it first and ask your doctor questions and look at other options.
Hope this helps!!

You could get circumstised? Or the coil etc but honestly if you get pregnant because your worried about wieght etc tell him to use viagra that why you can use a condom or go tell him to see his GP cos he may be having an reaction to stuff on the condom and the doctor can give you condoms made out of different stuff. I Am so sorry to hear about your miscarridge and please see someone if worse comes to worse. Please be careful babe x
think about it bbz x love ya x

Hello there, first of all every type of contraception has different effects on different people so it is certainly not definate that you will put on weight if you have the injection or take the pill, thats only happens to some people and you will never know if you dont try it. Secondly are you aware that the withdrawl method that you are currently using is extremely unreliable, when you have sex the man produces a small amount of semen before he actually ejaculates (pre-cum), and people often get pregnant this way. Finally what pill did you actually try that made you sick? because there are many different types out there and one of them is bound to suit you, the best thing to do will be to discuss this with your GP. Hope this is helpful x.