in
 
Community
All discussions
Top discussions
Most popular

◀ 

 Discover our articles:
Phil Vickery's Scrumptious Pudcasts - cooking videosPhil Vickery's Scrumptious PudcastsFear of commitment - how to make him run for the hills!Fear of commitment - how to make him run for the hills!When I grow up... The career choices of today's childrenWhen I grow up... The career choices of today's children

Thread started by:

So easy to knock me down

I was at the pub the other night, and I thought I was looking pretty good until one of the regulars made the following comment:

"Have you eaten 200 pies or are you pregnant?"

I was just gobsmacked. Everyone tried to reassure me...just ignore him, he's a drunken idiot. I've had to put up with comments like that for my entire life and even now, after working so hard to try and be fit and healthy and happy with myself, a comment like that just knocks me down. I dont understand why people have to make comments like that, do they not think its difficult enough dealing with weight problems without pig-headed remarks like that. I know I should try and move on, but I cant get his horrible comment out of my mind. Its driving me crazy.

I guess I'm not really asking advice or questions, I just needed to get it out of my system, I just feel so low and I cant shake it.

Replies:
Messages:

Re "so easy to knock me down"

Yeah, I agree. Sometimes when we feel so low, we just need someone or a medium to which we can vent out how we feel.....It's good that you're only writing your thoughts in this forum instead of binge eating or drinking. I'm sure you'll get over that comment easily.




____________________
www.laserlipoguide.com

Just remember that...

There will always be idiots out there but you have to remeùber that you're better than them. It's not worth wasting time over them.

Forget it!

Thing is some people can make some funny stupid comments! I would of said "yeh what you left over"

Dont let comments get to you so much hun



◀  Back to top


Total change in meAre beauty adverts unrealistic and do they result in negative body image?Smile!Polycystic ovaries (pcos) symstemsShould i tell my friends im on anti-depresants Is this depression?Too low to functionDepressed all the time/self harmingDoes councelling help???Has anyone taken or is currently taking wellbutrin?I'm depressed and don't know what to do anymore
10 most recent discussions : 




In slimming at the moment
The Blood Type diet
Keep that summer feeling! How to...
SAD and the secrets of Serotonin
Strut yourself slim
The lemon diet: drop a jeans size...
Slimming guides
Psychophany (voice therapy)
Eating healthy in summer
How to lose a few pounds fast
How to lose weight from your stoma...
The Dukan diet
Celebrities on soFeminine
Jesse Metcalfe
Emma Watson
Vin Diesel
Richard Gere
Queen
Slimming forums
Find a diet buddy
Slimming tips
Fertility
Dieting
Overweight and obesity problems
Related links: Forme & Bien être - Wellness Fitness - Dietas - Diete - Weight Loss Center

Copyright © 1999-2009 soFeminine.co.uk
This week: Food & Drink Special : recipes from A to Z, by country, by duration, by type - Surnames - E-cards
auFeminin Group: auFeminin - enFemenino - alFemminile - goFeminin - soFeminine - Teemix - Joyce - Voyage Bons Plans - Santé AZ - Marmiton - Marmiton.es - Marmiton.it - Marmikid - Tiboo - Recettes de Valérie - Noms de famille - Toutes les villes - Parcours-Gourmand - Onmeda - HerVietnam