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I hate myself

i just hate myself! i hate the way i look...i am so ugly! i am going on holiday with my boyfriend in few days time and insead of been happy i keep thinking about me and what i will look like in a beach with all others girls in bikini....i wish i could die!!!!! i just feel like loking myself in....i cant even go to the airport...he think i got bdd......

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Hello christiana

Hope you managed to go through with the holiday ok. One thing I noticed when I was abroad in the past was the way the women didn't really seem to care how they looked.

It was probably great if they looked good but even if they didn ... didn't seem to stop them going down the beach in their bikinis.
Saw some sizes too and admired their nerve as I wouldn't have been able to do it but it shows you how anyone can fit in abroad.

Your boyfriend must like you as you are. You just need to trust in his judgement.

well

Im sorry cristiana but if you had scars to 40 % of your body like i do, you would have something to moan about ...

cop on

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It's not a competition, there's no telling how much our own head can exaggerate things. To us you look great, but that's no good to you if you have some kind of dysmorphia going on. Most of us have it to some extent with relation to some part of our bodies. I bet you know an 'ugly' girl who's really self-confident and actually kinda magnetic as a result. Try and have fun on hols, you're never going to see those people again, those who judge on looks aren't worth it, and you can always see someone when you get back to start looking at why you feel this way. When you suss it out and take a few positive steps you'll feel a real difference. x

Ur gorgeous!

Hi Cristiana192,

I don't wana sound too forward or wierd, but by ur pic, u have nothing to worry about! ur really pretty. Im 5' 6 & weigh nearly 14stone! I'm also going on holiday soon & am a bit worried about getting my body out on the beech.

Don't worry, hope u feel better soon & just think about having a lovely holiday with ur boyfriend. Try n enjoy urself hun.

Take care

Sas
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