Someone help!

hi there im vix, and i've posted some things on this site, im only 14 and i self harm, i burn and slit my arms, legs and stomach, i need someone to talk to, even if they haven't been through my pain and hurting it would be good to talk to someone, please help me stop, the longest ive stopped self harming was for 2 weeks, but i self harm every day. Please help me.
vix xx

Start talking...

hi vix hey how about talking to everyone here...talking really does help...have you seen a doc about this?? what on earth is making you so sad ??you posted this on my birthday - maybe we are meant to get to know each other huh? big squeeze darls xx

Is worried

hi, thanks for replying, i hurt myself becuase my dad always hits me, and says horrible things to me, i always have fights and arguements with him everyday, i am always so depressed its hard to talk to people, i tell my friends about it, they said that i should stop hurting my self but its so hard, i always hit my head on walls/ doors, slit, burn and punch myself i hate my ugly fat body, i wouldnt be able to kill myself but when i cut myself i sometimes cut near my veins, i cant go to my doctor becuase i would worry that they would think im crazy, im scared of what to do
vix xx

Hi

Hiyah hun, i used to self harm, i got bullied quite bad at school.
I used to cut and hit myself. It was a very hard time for me and i felt as though i deserved to be hurt, so therefore i hurt myself.
I felt ugly and stupid, i felt worthless for a long time.
The only thing that helped me was getting help, i went to a councillor for about 18 months. She helped me through alot. I do still feel down at times, mostly about my weight.
I can only suggest that you speak to your doctor, he/she will help you through this difficult time and can put you through to a councillor or some support.
Also have you told anyone about your father hurting you, its wrong and he shouldn't be allowed to carry on with his behaviour.
I am always here to talk.
Laura x x

Im scared to

hi laura, thanks for repling, i dont want to go to my doctor because they might tell my parents, im just so scared to, i feel like a let down and earlier today i had an arguement with my dad and i started to punch myself right in front of him, and he didn't say anything to me, i really do think he doesnt care for me at all. i feel so ugly and fat it helps me to hurt myself, i might try and go to the doctor but im kind of scared to.
crimsonxflowingxemo vix
xxx

Go for it

Please go and see your doctor, i'm sure he/she will help. What you tell your doctor stays between you and your doctor, when i went to mine, he didnt tell my parents i was 15. He helped me get the support i needed. I ended up telling my parents although in your case your self harm is mainly caused by your father.
Do you live with both your parents if so, does your mother know what he does and how he makes you feel?
Is there any other factors in your self harm?
Like bullying?
Please reply it would be nice to talk x
Laura x x

Ok

hi laura, im really upset, my so called "friend" said that i was slagging her off, when i didnt even know i was, im so upset because she said i was just seeking attention, i wish i was dead because she has really upset me, i think i will go to my doctor and tell them about my problems, im a bit scared but im going to do, wish me luck.
hatedxbyxeveryonexemo vix xx

And then some...

sorry i was rushing ...i still battle every day for my son and his future and i worry so much about his exposure to this - i had it explained to me that the abused will constantly try to please the abuser and that this will become a lifelong habit if you dont take steps to change- in other words you will keep getting into abusive relationships-dont let this happen-make a change now and have a better life-to borrow a quote-feel the fear and do it anyway-and be gentle with yourself and your friend-we all need understanding xx

Hey youre not hated!!

please dont think that-i wish i could reach out and give you a big big hug!! please see your doctor or if youre not comfortable with him/her find another one. i know what you are going through is hell- my ex was abusive like that to my son...i left to keep him safe...but now he chooses to spend his time with the man who abuses him...this is why you need to get help-to know how to deal with all this and your feelings without hurting yourself -take care xx

Good luck sweety

Hi hun,
Good luck with the doctors, I am pretty sure that this will help!
And about your friend, i'm sure she will come around, i know waht thats life, one minute your friedns the next you aren't talking or "hate" eachother, but i hope that you make up with her, if you want to, but you don't need people like that around you, you need people who will support you not say that your attention seeking.
I hope the docs go well.
AND I DON'T HATE YOU!
Laura x x x x x x x

I tried but failed

hi, i tried to force myself into the doctors, i made and appointment and sat down, i was looking around and juts broke down, i just ran out and headed home, i feel so stupid, i wish i went through with it, and thanks for the advice, im giving it another go tomorrow.
vix xxxxxxxxxxxx

If at first you dont succeed..

then try,try again...thats what my dad always said to me and he was the best and wisest person ive ever known. just go back and even if you dont have an appointment just tell them you will wait until the doc can see you-dont ever feel stupid for not getting something done-just pick up where you left off and start again-you will get there and you will make a better life for yourself-it can be done-us girls can do anything - and dont ever forget it ok??big sqeeze to you darls xx

Keep strong babe x

Well at least you made an appointment thats a big step, well done.
Just explain to your doc, why you ran out.
Good luck sweety x

I'll try

Hi, Thanks for repling everyone, it's helped me, i'm going to go to the doc's and try and get help, maybe i should see about counciling. Thanks for all the advice evryone x.
vix xxx

Feeling better!

Hey, I'm completly changed now, I've stopped self harming for over a month now, It's been a struggle at times, unfortunatly I did slip up last week, I had an arguement with my dad, he said some hurtful things and I just couldn't cope, I felt so horrible that I resorted to self harming again after all my efforts, I didn't go to the doctors' I just couldn't face it, but everyone of you has pulled me through this and made me see it's not my fault, I have to thank everyone of you. I wouldn't have been able to do it without you or any of my friends, I just hope that other people in my case of self harming or any other people that also have problems that they need to get help and start to feel better about life.
Thanks for everything, luv ya lots people xxx
Vix x x x x x

Go girl!!

thats fantastic - more power to you!! very best of luck to you and stick with it xxx

Okay i guess?!?

Well I'm feeling better I guess, I'm seeing a councillor. She's helping me out, getting me to be more confident too. Thanks everyone. xxx