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Sex help needed

Hi,
This might not sound like much of aproblem - esecially compared to some of the other threads but..
My boyfriend nd I have been together for years and now exactly what we like etc so turn each other on very easily. The problem is i often orgasm very quickly and then go sort of numb so am distracted and not feling much for the rest of the 'session'.
Does anone have ny tips on how to regian sensation and enjoy his enjoyment..and maybe have twice as much fun myself??
Thanks

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Sex help needed

right all u need to do young lady is buy some durex tingle play!!! it works a treat if u slowly put some on ure hands and his and start rubbing and touching each otehr u will orgasm but then once u have put some more on and go for the sex ul love it teh sensation is amazing and u wotn be distracted after your first orgasm u will wnat to carry on!!!! trust me ul love it. giev it a try and let me know

Hey

hey i have a simalair problem ... i can only usually orgasm once during sex because of it ... but i've found that if after i do i make him like eat me out before we do it again and at least it still feels good

Hey

usually when im having a long session with my partner, i have intervals meaning that once ive had my 1st orgasm, we have a break wea i either give him a BJ or just start to fool around so i can get the same sensation for wen we start over. i dont go numb so i dnt know if it will help...but it might be worth trying out

Hiya sweetie

hiya sweetie,
Yeah im getting what your saying!
Yeah you could try "cooling down" as below
Or you could try different things in the bedroom
This started happening to me untill:
We started using a blind fold
They cost 6£ from ann summers
They make things better because you dont know whats going to happen next
It will be garenteed to turn you on with only the slightest touches of your other half.
But it wont be enough to make you orgasm!
Just try different ways of turning you on that wont cause an orgasm...
It worked for me as i have
handcuffs, Blindfold,
2 different outfits...
And working on getting more!!

Delay your orgasm?

Hi Smiler,
maybe you could ask your guy to stop what he's doing when you feel that you're about to orgasm and ask him to put his attention on another part of your body, or maybe when you feel your gonna orgasm, you could then concentrate on stimulating him while you "cool down". That way, you'll delay your orgasm and be able to enjoy the sex for longer.

Hope this is some help, and be grateful that your getting orgasms! Not all girls are!



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