Im 16, my boyfriends 19, and i think im regnant....help??!!!

WELL IM ONLY 16 AND I JUST TURNED 16 LIKE A MONTH AND A HALF AGO...MY BOYFRIEND, ON THE OTHER HAND, IS 19 GOIN ON 20 IN A COUPLE OF MONTTHS...I THINK IM PREGNANT AND IM SOOOO SCARED!!! MY MOM IS NOT THE KIND OF PERSON TO TALK TO ESPECIALLY ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT!! AND SHE TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY THAT IF HE EVER DOES ANYTHING TO ME OR GETS ME PREGNANT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT THAT SHE WILL DO EVRYTHING IN HER POWER TO GET HIM LOCKED UP...I DONT BELIEVE IN ABORTIONS AND I KINDA DO WANNA HAVE THIS BABY IF IM REALLYY EXPECTING...BUT I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HER AND I REALLY DONT WANT HER TO OVERREACT AND TRY TO PUT MY BOYFRIEND IN JAIL...IM SO SCARED..IDK WAT TO DO...PLEASE SOMEBODY GIMME SOME ADVICE...PLEASE!!!

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sound to me like you wanna get pregnant?
... your mum if she loved you she would support you,
what would your boyfriend say if you are pregnant would he support you?
if you dont have any support maybe the best thing wouldnt be is get a abortion you dont want to be bringing up a baby alone its horrible trust me.

Calm yourself gurl

Ok calm down.im 16 and 4 months my mums exactly the same! im a really good student and just because i go to one college party sheel give me a sex talk then get scared and threten me .... its just ur mums protection over you shes scaring you to not get pregnant becos she loves u and wants u to have a good successful life so thatts good 4 starters.
Seccondly does he knob you bf? if he sticks by u thats brilliant but if not ( as guys 19/20 dont tend to) then let me know.

Take some tests and go see your dr. and if u are pregnant keep me posted and ill have some advice on what to do next.

Hmm pretty bad situation

WELL U HAVE GOT URSELF IN A BAD SITUATION HOW OLD WERE U WEN U SLEPT WIF HIM.IF U WERE 16 UR MAM CANT PUT HIM IN JAIL 4 RAPE O ANYFIN IF U WERE 16 WEN U SLEPT WIF HIM THEN DONT WORRY JUST TELL UR MAM SHE PROPS GO MAD THEN U RUN TO HIS HOUSE SHE WILL PROBS FORGIVE IN A WEEK AND BE EXITED THAT SHES A NANNA BUT BE4 U TELL UR
MAM BE SURE TO GET A DEFINET PRGNECY TEST FROM A DOCTOR

I kno how you feel

iv been through the same situation although me and my boyfriend are both 17..the worst thing you can do is wait so get a test you can get them free at the doctors or clinic or you can buy one (or get your boyfriend to buy it like i did as i was too scared)

If you are pregnant you will need to make an appointment at the doctors then they will let you kno about your options however if you are pregnant your mam will find out. i to was and am still suprisinly against abortion but me and my boyfriend talk through it all and it was best..its upsetting and very painful but it was the best option for us and the baby. You dont need to worry about this yet but it might be best if you prepare yourself

Re:

Okay, first off, calm down. Breathe. I was in a similar situation a while back. The best thing you can do is try to relax.

Next, find out for sure if you are pregnant. I tend to jump to conclusions, I thot I was pregnant and it turned out I wasn't. Your sixteen which means your body is bound to act crazy and you may occasionally skip periods. Once i was 2 weeks late. So before you stress yourself out too much, make sure you are actually pregnant.

Third, does your bf know about this? Make sure you include him in all of this. He will help you calm down and be a good support person.

So, heres what you need to do, tell your bf if u haven't already and take a few pregnancy tests. Find out for sure and keep me posted. If you really are pregnant, let me kno and ill be brainstorming ideas for you. Good luck, and remember, try to stay calm.

Allie161