No feeling during sex?!

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a bit over a week ago. It didn't hurt that badly, since I'd been preparing myself x3

But that isn't the point. We've had sex twice since then and both times I felt absolutely nothing! He's used his mouth and his fingers as well, but nothing has brought me even close to an orgasm. The only time I ever orgasm is with a shower head on my clit, but that's hardly usable during sex!

Also, I must be broken. Nothing he does can get a reaction out of me. I am completely silent, have no facial expression, my breathing doesn't even change. I can carry on a normal conversation, no problem. It's creepy as hell for him, and disappointing for me since I want to do this for both him and myself. I don't always want him to have to ask 'Is this OK?'.

But the main problem here is the lack of pleasure. The other would just be something I would like to fix.

Can anybody help me? D:

Hi

the first few times i had sex i dint rle feel anything but thn we tryed usin things like tingle and heat lube.
also buy the ann summers karma suitra book it shows positions in which he can hit ur G spot . have u tried usin a ... ring?


hope this helps
freyaaaa x

Same !

I'm the same, I fake it... I don't want the guys to think I'm disappointed in them as it can hurt their self confidence.

I could easily talk to them too haha!
The worst thing is when it gets boring, and you're just looking round the room thinking 'How much longer?'

I've asked a lot of my friends if they've ever had an orgasm with guys and they've come up empty, so I think it's something to do with confidence or how comfortable you are.
Maybe it's just the fact it's with a boyfriend and you want to please him too, concentrating on it more has always been said to knock pleasure down.

How old are you can I ask?
You sound roughly the same age as me I think xD
x

heya

hey i get like that too. i get nothing out of it but fake it so they dnt feel bad. like i get pleasure when i have vibration on my clit n same wiv the shower head but yea ya know.i found my self looking around the room a few times once wiv my bf n i was thinking the exact same thing 'how much longer' its horrible but yea...

Hey

I felt the same as this for years! I couldnt feel anything and didnt enjoy sex. For me it was due to not being comfortable, i really hate my body and have zero self confidence. Now i have been sleeping with a close male friend for about a month, i trust him completely and he understands me and the sex is amazing. Yes some days when im not in the mood i still feel nothing, but for me it has definatly been down to trust and being comfortable that has made sex better.
x

Hello

i am girl french 18

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