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Well its not suprising your getting called things, loosing your viginity at a young age is kinda wrong. Although i cant say much seems as i lost my viginity when i was 14, however i was in a LONG relationship. With anyone you have sex with you should still use a condom, especially if it is not yours or the other persons first time, as they could have any type of STD. And the pill does not protect you from them, Using a condom when coming off the pill would have also decreased the chances of you becoming pregnant. The "boy" your having sex with now, seems a waste of time. especially if they are only using you for sex, you may like them but you should like and respect your self more. If you are simply meetin this chap and having sex with him you clearly have no respect for your self.  so my advice to you about him is dont se him anymore, dont get involved. and dont go round having sex with people that your not in a strong relaitionship with, and if you are having sex (USE A CONDOM). As for the misscarrage, im guessing your friends havent gone through it. and so they wont fully understand anything about it. Being so young i bet you hardly understood yourself. You should think your self lucky in a way, as if the guy who is the father is sayin he dont want people too know, then if you had have had the baby, you would be a single mom at a young age. and he wouldnt be there in anyway to support you. My advice is although you must feel horrible about having a misscarrage you should think your lucky that you did, and also stop "sexing" around. If your going around doing things with people, expect to be called a name. and last but not least. RESPECT YOURSELF!  hope it helped x
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